The Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor

Dirty Secrets Ep 050

Amanda the Kink Consultant – Dom/Sub Truths, Male Submission & Kink Myths

So… what if your partner is kinky and you’re not? Or worse—you are kinky and have no idea how to say it out loud? 😏

Amanda the Kink Consultant is breaking it ALL down. We talk about how to actually start that conversation (hint: it’s not “I want to be spanked”), why male submission is way more common than people think, and what dominance really looks like beyond whips and chains.

We also get into power dynamics, the psychology behind kink, and why consent—not intensity—is what separates sexy from scary.

And yes… we go there with hypnotherapy, punishment fantasies, and the real truth about 50 Shades.

This one’s eye-opening, smart, and just the right amount of spicy. Come play.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @the_kinkconsultant

Dirty Secrets Ep 049
Ash & Tanya – Swinger Clubs, Reality TV Drama & LifestyleRules

🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Ash & Tanya

What happens when a random night out turns into a full-blown swinger lifestyle… and then lands you on reality TV? 😏

Ash & Tanya share how one unexpected question sparked their journey, how they found a club four minutes from their house, and why their first experiences were equal parts hot and chaotic (wait until you hear the Viagra story…).

We get into the real rules that make swinging work, how to avoid resentment, and why “don’t take one for the team” might be the most important advice you’ll ever hear.

Plus, their reality TV experience where producers literally tried to mess with their relationship for entertainment… yeah, it’s wild.

Come laugh with us.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @ashandtanya

Dirty Secrets Ep 048

🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Jaimie Smiles

She went from “normal mom next door” to confidently owning her sexuality… and it all started during COVID.
Jaimie Smiles opens up about her glow-up journey, how losing weight and gaining attention sparked something new, and the moment her husband casually said, “I made you an OnlyFans.” 😳

We get into hotwife dynamics (and what people totally misunderstand about them), the rules that actually make it work, and how their relationship evolved from private exploration to filming content together.

We also talk about confidence, staying grounded while building a following, and why she still sees herself as just a chill, normal girl… who happens to love putting on a show.

Plus, a convo about orgasms, expectations, and why sex doesn’t always need a grand finale.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @jaimiesmiles

Dirty Secrets Ep 047

“Chris Petrone – “Captain Tampon,” Dating Advice & Why Men Need to Wash Their Ass”

🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Chris Petrone

Is washing your ass… controversial now? Apparently, yes. 😳
Chris Petrone joins me to talk about going from dating advice guy to creating spicy content, and the unexpected backlash that comes with it. We get into parasocial fans who think they know you, why being respectful to women gets you labeled “Captain Tampon,” and the wild DMs he gets (from both men and women).

We also talk about porn vs real-life sex, why connection beats technique every time, and how something as simple as communication can completely change your sex life.
Plus, wait until you hear the custom request involving a cartoon cow… I wish I was kidding.

This one’s funny, honest, and low-key educational in the best way.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @ChrisPetrone

Dirty Secrets Ep 046
“Mallory Knight – Starting OnlyFans at 57, Dommy MommyEnergy & Swinger Stories”

Most people think the adult industry is a young person’s game. Mallory Knight started her career at 57.

In this episode, Mallory shares how curiosity, a supportive husband, and one intriguing conversation led her into OnlyFans later in life—and why she’s loved every minute of it since. We talk about her years in the swinger lifestyle, the surprising dynamics of filming scenes while staying happily married, and how editing her own content sometimes leaves her a little… turned on.

We also dive into her “goddess dommy mommy” persona, why younger fans are drawn to nurturing dominance, and the strange but fascinating custom content requests creators get.

Plus, the story of the night her husband encouraged her to invite a stranger from a strip club back home… and what happened next.

Host: @thekatykat @thekatykatvip
Guest: @mallorykxoxo