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This episode is deep on discourse, listener! Sheria Mattis is a stand-up comedian, writer, and co-host of the hilarious Strap Down podcast that's all about queer black culture, but today she RETURNS to the apartment — and she’s got some beef with racist white lesbians. It’s a discourse heavy episode as we discuss lesbian interracial relationships, the toxic & racist dynamics that can emerge from them, polyamory, the Raven-Symoné drama, and the hottest new ADHD medications. Ash unpacks the racism of white women. Lizzy attacks racists at punk shows. Oh yeah — and we also talk about the correct amount of time to give head…

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This episode is more than skin-deep, listener! Chloe Radcliffe is a comedian, writer, and the host of the hilarious In Tandem with Chloe Radcliffe. We discuss her brand new Comedy Central special, Eyes Down Here, the different standards of beauty in the Midwest v. NYC, stealing perfect bites from partner’s plates, and Ashley’s gay face. Lizzy shares a story about unexpected responses to two IG selfies, and Ash seeks advice on how to take sexy pics without looking like a Hey Mamas lesbian. Chloe talks about some out of pocket things that make-up artists have said to her about her birthmark, and we finish the episode discussing more broadly how physical appearance impacts the jokes we tell on stage.

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Hey Bottom Nation — just wanted to give a quick update on the audio issues you may have heard on the most recent episode of WHGS, #347. Sadly we had a pretty major microphone issue in the middle of the recording, so we had to use camera audio from about 36:15 - 51:30. However the episode was so funny that we wanted to put it out anyway. Many apologies, and we hope it doesn't make it unlistenable!
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(Apologies for the audio issues that occur around the GILF video (36:00 - 51:00), we had some technical difficulties and had to use the camera mics for that section!) This episode is hole-y, listener! Jake Brasch & Nadja Leonhard-Hooper (American Sing-Song) are the multi-hyphenate duo behind the new, hilarious musical HOLE! We discuss the show and its origins, Kafka’s girlfriend, our favorite psych meds, evangelicals, and the eroticism of centaurs. The Brazilian MILF (now GILF!) returns, and everyone gets to watch the exact moment that Ash experiences what Lizzy calls “a comic’s worst nightmare,” on stage. Afterwards, we get into the complicated subject of including real people in your art, and discuss the absurdities of having baby fever as a queer person.

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This episode is lively, listener! Nico Carney is a comedian, writer, and actor, whose new hour-long special ‘WEE LAD’ is now out on Youtube. We discuss the genders TikTok commenters assign us, straight men with masculine wives, and facing uncertainty before transition. Jen’s parents accidentally see way too much of Ashley’s boobs, Nico shares an insightful story about confronting people from your past, and Freddie talks about the similarities between sex and improv.

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