ResponseABLE Parenting

You know that moment, you ask your kid to do something they HAVE to do…like brush their teeth. You get met with a reaction that's far greater than the request. And within seconds you're in a fight with your kid. Based on how many times you've been in this exact same fight, your nervous system is primed for the fight and you go round and round.

In this episode I share the FIRST most critical step to get out of "The Reactive Trap" by identifying your "Expectation Gap." In this episode I share a few real life examples of how I got OUT of "The Reactive Trap" before getting into a fight over the really annoying things that are expected daily. 
You can grab Before You Lose It right here! https://responseable-community.circle.so/checkout/gap 
Join the upcoming masterclass: https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/adhd-masterclass
Jump right into the program: https://www.responseableparenting.com/join


🎉STOP YELLING! The ADHD Behavior Blueprint is HERE!🎉
If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass. 
I will walk you through my proprietary 8 step method that will teach you exactly what needs to be in place in order to see the changes you want to see. 
Register here to get the details for the latest masterclass!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/stop
FREE RESOURCES!
Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards

Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero

Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call

Have you noticed that when your ADHD kid is dysregulated it comes out as being plain nasty?! For lack of a better word, they turn into a total asshole! New EEG research shows that 96% of hyperactive-impulsive ADHD kids have a significant difference in frontal lobe activity during frustrating moments. And the net result is anger and aggression. Of that 96%, 63% is severe. This is important to note, because in neurotypical children, this outcome is 12%. This tells us it's less a behavior choice and more of a wiring reality.
To me, this is empowering. Because now we know more and we can do more with this information. Inside this episode I share some critical mindset shifts as well as practical ways we can start to move the needle forward. 
As promised from the episode here are the 3 next options:
Join the upcoming masterclass: https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/adhd-masterclass

Jump right into the program: https://www.responseableparenting.com/join

Book a Connection Call to talk about 1:1 coaching: https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call 


Study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC13018046/


🎉STOP YELLING! How to create a resilient and responsive ADHD home🎉
If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass. 
I will walk you through my proprietary 8 step method that will teach you exactly what needs to be in place in order to see the changes you want to see. 
Register here to get the details for the latest masterclass!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/stop
FREE RESOURCES!
Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards



Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero



Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call

Tim Shurr specializes in rapid mindset transformation for individuals facing ongoing stress and emotional triggers. Over 36 years, Tim has facilitated more than 16,000 belief transformation sessions, working with Fortune 500 execs and top performers to rewire the unconscious patterns that drive 95% of our behaviors. His One Belief Away Method reliably creates fast, lasting shifts that most expect only after years of therapy.
Tim has the ability to locate and upgrade the unconscious belief that creates those patterns in the first place. Instead of teaching people to cope, reframe, or try harder, he retrains the mental operating system with new rules that allow the nervous system to stand down, which is why change happens faster, feels easier, and actually lasts. By updating a single belief, calm, confidence, and consistent action instantly become natural rather than forced.
His style is practical, fast, and highly effective. Tim shares his cutting-edge tools for mastering your life. He has been endorsed by icons such as Bob Proctor, Dr. Denis Waitley, Les Brown, John Assaraf, Ken Blanchard, Brian Tracy, Seth Godin, Dr. Bernie Siegel, and more. He's written 7 books and has been on all major television networks numerous times.
You can find Tim here: https://timshurr.com/ 


🎉STOP YELLING! How to create a resilient and responsive ADHD home🎉
If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass. 
I will walk you through my proprietary 8 step method that will teach you exactly what needs to be in place in order to see the changes you want to see. 
Register here to get the details for the latest masterclass!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/stop
BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST!
If you would like to be a guest on the podcast and troubleshoot what's going on for you in real time, please fill out the podcast submission form. I look forward to connecting with you! Submit here: https://bit.ly/4c57Tx5 
FREE RESOURCES!
Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards



Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero



Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call

As a clinician, creator, and mother of three, Nikki sees firsthand how parents and kids alike are impacted by systemic chaos. With over a decade as an OB/GYN Physician Assistant, she's helped families navigate everything from adolescence to postpartum and menopause, always focusing on trauma-informed care and honest conversations. These experiences inspired her to launch Take Back Trust and author We Deserve More, which came out May 19, 2026. 
In this episode we explore how reproductive health intersects with family dynamics, self-advocacy, and resilience. She offers tools to stay grounded and respond—not just react—even amid uncertainty.
You can find Nikki on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/nikkivinck/ 
🎉STOP YELLING! How to create a resilient and responsive ADHD home🎉
If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass. 
I will walk you through my proprietary 8 step method that will teach you exactly what needs to be in place in order to see the changes you want to see. 
Register here to get the details for the latest masterclass!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/stop

BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST!
If you would like to be a guest on the podcast and troubleshoot what's going on for you in real time, please fill out the podcast submission form. I look forward to connecting with you! Submit here: https://bit.ly/4c57Tx5 
FREE RESOURCES!
Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards



Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero



Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call

Dr. Gail Saltz is a Psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, columnist, television commentator, author of The Power of Different: The Link Between Disorder and Genius, and medical expert for the Physicians for Human Rights, Dr. Saltz specializes in a variety of psychological issues, including those pertaining to emotional wellbeing and mental health/wellness aspects of breaking news stories. She is an Associate Professor of Psychiatry at the NY Presbyterian Hospital Weill-Cornell School of Medicine, a psychoanalyst with the New York Psychoanalytic Institute and has a private practice in Manhattan. 
This is such an incredible episode and my hope is it allows us to see more of the possibilities for our children. To know that there is so much scientific proof that our kid's brains are powerful, capable, and truly remarkable.


🎉STOP YELLING! How to create a resilient and responsive ADHD home🎉
If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass. 
I will walk you through my proprietary 8 step method that will teach you exactly what needs to be in place in order to see the changes you want to see. 
Register here to get the details for the latest masterclass!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/stop
BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST!
If you would like to be a guest on the podcast and troubleshoot what's going on for you in real time, please fill out the podcast submission form. I look forward to connecting with you! Submit here: https://bit.ly/4c57Tx5 
FREE RESOURCES!
Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards

Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero



Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call