Order of Man

In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen answer real questions from men striving for personal growth. They share candid insights on breaking free from social media comparison, staying emotionally present without checking out, and stepping up as a father without a roadmap.
The duo also dives deep into rebuilding trust after business betrayals, finding resilience through backcountry hunting, and overcoming self-doubt in leadership. Tune in for practical advice on building character, dynamic family life, and leading with radical authenticity.  
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Intro & News Headlines  
05:05 - Wholesome Anniversary Segment  
11:56 - Beating Social Media Comparison  
18:58 - Calm Under Pressure vs. Emotionally Checked Out  
30:36 - Fatherhood Without a Father Figure  
41:11 - Rebuilding Trust After Business Betrayal  
47:07 - Character Lessons in the Backcountry Wilderness  
52:40 - Leading Through Faith and Doubt  
01:01:38 - The Line Between Providing and Spoiling
 
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Every relationship you're in is running a test you don't even know you're taking. And, most men are failing it in slow motion. Today's guest built his reputation calling out the exact moments men hand over their frame without noticing: the pedestal-building, the concessions that pile up one at a time until there are a thousand of them, the "I appreciate your energy" while she's quietly checking out. This isn't theory. It's the pattern behind every man who woke up one day wondering how he ended up as her Plan B in his own home.
We're getting into "shit tests" and why they never stop, why contempt is the clock counting down on a marriage, and why the "go plan" is the same as the "stay plan" might be the most freeing sentence you hear all year. We'll cover a few of the 7 spokes of a high-value man, some of the the 21 red flags and 16 green flags worth knowing before you commit, and why proximity, familiarity, and exclusivity are what actually build attraction. If you've ever felt like you're auditioning for your own life, this episode is your wake-up call.
 
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction and Social Media Platforms
03:47 - Male Friendships and Testing Boundaries
05:08 - The Rise of the "Boss Girl" Avatar
06:51 - Why Modern Men Struggle with Masculinity
11:09 - Taking Frame Back in Relationships
14:18 - The Process of Betatization and Concessions
17:44 - Decisiveness and Leading in Dating
21:08 - How Cultural Narratives Weaken Men
24:36 - Tuning Into Your Inner Asshole
28:02 - Establishing Boundaries and Determinative Action
33:17 - Addressing Toxic Masculinity Accusations
37:10 - Handling Competency and Shit Tests
39:28 - The Fishing Boat Analogy for Maintaining Attraction
42:45 - The 7 Spokes of a High-Value Man
48:58 - Avoiding Bitterness and the Black Pill Mentality
53:45 - Major Red Flags to Avoid in Dating
55:25 - The Controversy Around Women and Tattoos
57:55 - Green Flags to Look for in a Partner
01:00:48 - Overview of 'Top Shelf Man' and Where to Connect  
 
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Most men go their entire lives running on substitute friendships without realizing their tank is completely empty. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down the 5 types of men in your life - from the convenient neighbor to the group chat clown - and reveals why only one of them will actually stand by you in a crisis. Learn how to audit your inner circle, eliminate friction-free surface relationships, and build genuine 2 AM friendships through intentionality and radical honesty.  
Ready to surrounding yourself with high-caliber men? Join the Iron Council brotherhood at orderofman.com/ironcouncil.  
 
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - The Friendship Trap Most Men Fall For
00:21 - Category 1: The Convenient Friend
04:55 - Category 2: The Default Friend
07:11 - Category 3: The Clown
11:02 - Category 4: The Casual Friend
15:04 - Category 5: The 2 AM Friend
18:10 - Why 2 AM Friendships Still Have Limitations
20:07 - Taking Responsibility for Your Relationships
22:25 - The 80/20 Rule of Male Vulnerability
26:47 - How to Build Intentional Brotherhood 


 
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Ryan and Kipp dive into another Ask Me Anything episode covering friendship, leadership, masculinity, marriage, and purpose. They begin by discussing George Washington's remarkable character and why understanding history matters today. Listener questions lead to conversations about finding true brothers instead of surface-level friends, accepting difficult personal feedback, evaluating modern masculinity influencers, and navigating marriage when a wife earns more than her husband. Along the way, Ryan shares personal stories about leadership, divorce, and conviction, while Kipp offers practical insights on authenticity, self-leadership, and intentional living.
 
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Pre-show conversation
11:47 – George Washington discussion
19:21 – Finding brothers instead of casual friends
27:22 – Difficult personal feedback and growth
42:30 – Choosing trustworthy voices on masculinity
51:19 – Should men be the primary provider?
1:03:18 – Iron Council preview invitation
1:04:18 – Closing thoughts
 
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Most men think attraction is something that happens to them (a switch their wife either flips or doesn't). Keith Yackey burns that idea to the ground. After two divorces, he built a framework around one brutal truth: you don't get what you want, you get what you are. If she's not leaning in anymore, that's not a mystery. That's a mirror.

In this conversation, Keith breaks down the five dials every man is quietly failing (parent, partner, producer, player, and power) and hands you the exact language to rate yourself against them. We get into why scheduling sex builds more desire than spontaneity ever will, why "I did it for you" is the worst thing a man can say, and why the guys who stop chasing anything eventually get left by everything. This isn't theory. It's the same math Keith used to go from a 19 out of 100 to the best marriage of his life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 Welcome to Mickler Manor
01:53 Montana Knife Company Gift & Blood Brothers
04:06 Learning How to Receive Help as a Man
08:23 Do Men Need to Hit Rock Bottom?
10:36 Realizing You Are the Common Denominator
12:55 Becoming a Better Coach Through Failure
14:38 Why Men Need Stories of Struggle
18:42 Purpose, Mission, and Identity Over Ego
22:33 The Raw Truth About Relationship Dynamics
24:42 Extreme Ownership vs. Victim Mentality
28:53 What a "Fulfilled" Woman Wants
32:43 The Power of Boundaries and Saying "No"
36:57 The Importance of Brotherhood and Male Tribes
40:13 Overt vs. Covert Communication in Marriage
42:27 Overcoming Complacency in Relationships
46:20 Creating Novelty & Building Consistency
50:32 Self-Validation and Holding High Standards
54:42 Leading with Intention
58:34 Captain of the Vessel vs. Passengers
01:02:35 Support, Peacemaking, and Shared Joy
01:06:31 Direct Communication and Expressing Desires
01:12:45 Why Scheduling Intimacy Works
01:16:53 The 5 Dials of Long-Term Attraction
01:23:10 Rating Yourself and Fixing Your Relationship Grade
01:29:32 Modeling Love and Setting the Container
01:32:52 Connecting with Keith Yackey & Married Game


Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!
Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.
For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.
Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready