Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin

The Money School: The Complete Financial Education You Were Never Given

Nicole's most comprehensive book yet, the financial curriculum that should have been taught in school but never was. From your first paycheck to investing, buying a home, building wealth, and planning your legacy, The Money School is the full course in plain English.

Go check it out: https://nicolelapin.com/money-school-book

Vanessa Van Edwards is THE top behavioral researcher out there — we’re talking Harvard, MIT, Stanford… and is the go-to expert for the likes of Google, Microsoft, and Amazon to call on when they need to fix their people problems. She’s here to help us be more likeable — and use those skills to seal actual deals.

She's on Money Rehab to tell us:

How to actually make the best first impression

How how to have less awkward small talk

The secret tells that someone is not feeling a conversation

And the best way to navigate work events as an introverted-extrovert…asked for a friend

Chapters

00:00 Are You Ready for Some Money Rehab?

01:44 The Two Kinds of Awkward (Which One Are You?)

03:22 Every Conversation Has a Blueprint

04:30 Why Small Talk Gets Stuck on Dead-End Facts

06:39 Turning Small Talk Into a Treasure Hunt

10:38 The Missing Ingredient in Business Success: Rapport Before the Pitch

14:44 Why Skipping Ahead Too Quickly Costs You

18:40 The TV Pitch Vanessa Bombed Over Small Talk

22:17 How Likability Gets Priced Into Your Paycheck

24:00 How to Compete With the Feed in Conversation

26:19 The Five Magic Likable Phrases

33:51 Can We Kill the Weather Talk?

36:16 How to Be a Better Listener

37:23 Level Two: Dream Storming and Goals

40:06 Why You Should Stop Talking About How Busy You Are

42:06 Should You Complain at Work?

46:03 Go-To Openers for Zoom Calls

47:21 Level Three: Self-Narratives and Money Narratives

50:08 How to Make Adult Friends (Friendship Bootcamp)

53:10 Why "Level Two" Connections Are the Most Valuable at Work

57:17 Why Conversation Is Career Insurance Against AI

58:55 Warmth vs. Competence: You Need Both

01:02:15 How to Talk to a Friend Who Owes You Money

01:04:39 First Impressions and How to Exit a Conversation Gracefully

01:09:03 Bullish or Bearish: Hugs, Handshakes, and Email Sign-Offs

01:12:06 Tip You Can Take Straight to the Bank

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OTHER THINGS WE DO

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💰 Private Wealth Collective: https://privatewealthcollective.com

🏦 The Money School: https://themoneyschool.com
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The Money School: The Complete Financial Education You Were Never Given

Nicole's most comprehensive book yet, the financial curriculum that should have been taught in school but never was. From your first paycheck to investing, buying a home, building wealth, and planning your legacy, The Money School is the full course in plain English.

Go check it out: https://nicolelapin.com/money-school-book

Financial headlines are always going to be scary, but there's money to be made in any economy. That's my biggest takeaway from sitting down with Ray Dalio. He started investing at twelve, built Bridgewater into one of the biggest hedge funds on the planet, and made more money for his clients than any hedge fund manager alive. I don't get starstruck often, but I couldn't play it cool with this one.

Today I'm sharing the moments from our conversation that I'm still thinking about. I break down Ray's view of how money and debt really work, why he thinks the U.S. has a lot of "plaque" in its financial arteries, and what that means for the buying power in your bank account. Then I get into the investing strategy Ray is famous for, including the one asset he loves that another billionaire I had on the show said he has no opinion on.

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🌐 Nicole's website: https://nicolelapin.com

OTHER THINGS WE DO

💳 SoFi: https://SoFi.com/MNN

💰 Private Wealth Collective: https://privatewealthcollective.com

🏦 The Money School: https://themoneyschool.com
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The Money School: The Complete Financial Education You Were Never Given

Nicole's most comprehensive book yet, the financial curriculum that should have been taught in school but never was. From your first paycheck to investing, buying a home, building wealth, and planning your legacy, The Money School is the full course in plain English.

Go check it out: https://nicolelapin.com/money-school-book

Caitlin Sarian — better known to millions as "Cybersecurity Girl" — has spent her career on the inside of online safety and today she joins Money Rehab to show us exactly how the scams draining Americans' bank accounts really work. - The scam that's quietly emptying retirement accounts right now

She tells me the one word that should make you hang up the phone every single time

The safe word every family needs before the next phone call comes in

And the one way to pay that can actually get your money back…

Chapters
00:00 Are You Ready for Some Money Rehab?

01:57 The Toll Road Scam Text, Live Read

04:13 Is AI Making Scams Scarier Than Ever?

05:14 How to Spot an AI-Generated Scam Message

06:39 Fake Podcast Invites and Meta Account Takeovers

08:21 Impersonation Scams Targeting Financial Influencers

09:45 Why Banks Can't Get Your Money Back After a Zelle Scam

11:22 The Wrong Phone Number Scam Hiding in Google's AI Summary

14:39 The AI Voice Clone Scam That Terrifies Every Parent

16:02 Setting Up a Family Safe Word

20:19 Two Red Flags: Urgency and "Don't Tell Anyone"

21:36 Why Scammers Target the Elderly and Kids

22:38 Pig Butchering Scams, Explained

27:02 Nicole and Caitlin Share Their Own Scam Stories

36:06 The $100K Invoice Scam That Hit Money News Network's Own Partner

41:11 Why You Should Never Use a Debit Card

42:10 The Fake Bank Fraud Department Call

49:39 Real or Scam? Testing Common Scam Texts

57:06 SIM Swapping and Why You Need an Authenticator App

1:00:17 Freezing Your Credit (and Your Kids' and Grandparents' Credit Too)

1:04:06 What's a Good Budget for Identity Protection Apps?

1:06:56 Tip You Can Take Straight to the Bank

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📽️ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nicolelapin

🌐 Nicole's website: https://nicolelapin.com

OTHER THINGS WE DO

💳 SoFi: https://SoFi.com/MNN

💰 Private Wealth Collective: https://privatewealthcollective.com

🏦 The Money School: https://themoneyschool.com

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The Money School: The Complete Financial Education You Were Never Given

Nicole's most comprehensive book yet, the financial curriculum that should have been taught in school but never was. From your first paycheck to investing, buying a home, building wealth, and planning your legacy, The Money School is the full course in plain English.

Go check it out: https://nicolelapin.com/money-school-book

Bill Ackman called the 2008 financial crisis years before Wall Street did, and he built one of the most legendary trades in modern investing along the way. Today, Nicole breaks down the money lessons from her sit-down with Bill that she can't stop thinking about, and why they matter for your portfolio even if you don't run a hedge fund.

She unpacks the "durable compounder" philosophy Bill uses to find unkillable businesses, and how Warren Buffett has influenced his strategy. Then things get cautionary: Bill's blunt warning about borrowing against your stocks, the margin call math that can crush you, and his take on the one-day options trend flooding retail trading apps.

Watch Nicole's full interview with Bill Ackman: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9eSLJZJpOYo

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🌐 Nicole's website: https://nicolelapin.com

OTHER THINGS WE DO

💳 SoFi: https://SoFi.com/MNN

💰 Private Wealth Collective: https://privatewealthcollective.com

🏦 The Money School: https://themoneyschool.com
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My latest book, The Money School: The Complete Financial Education You Were Never Given, the financial curriculum that should have been taught in school but never was. From your first paycheck to investing, buying a home, building wealth, and planning your legacy, The Money School is the full course in plain English. Go check it out: https://nicolelapin.com/money-school-book

Dr. Shefali is the psychologist behind the conscious parenting movement -the idea that you can’t raise healthy kids without looking at your own crap first. And she is the author of two new books, Raising Conscious Sons and Raising Conscious Daughters, https://www.drshefali.com/raisingconscious-daughters-sons/

Today she joins money rehab to teach us how to raise healthy kids mentally and financially.

In this episode, you’ll learn

the impact the idea that “good girls don’t talk about money” is having on our daughters

the importance of how you talk about finances around your kid

and how to make sure your kids are resilient with money

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🎥 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoneyRehabShow

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moneyrehab/

📽️ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nicolelapin

🌐 Nicole's website: https://nicolelapin.com

OTHER THINGS WE DO

💳 SoFi: https://SoFi.com/MNN

💰 Private Wealth Collective: https://privatewealthcollective.com

🏦 The Money School: https://themoneyschool.com
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