Welcome to Part One of “The Village” series, where I’m diving deep into one of the most common (and desperate) parenting cries I hear: Where the hell is the village?! Spoiler alert—it doesn’t just show up. In this episode, I’m unpacking how we got here, what’s changed from just a couple generations ago, and why parenting today feels so damn isolating (especially during those brutal 0–6 years). We’re talking about the crushing mental load, the rise of “toxic” label culture, the myth of fitting in, and how dopamine is messing with our ability to form real connection. But this isn’t a rant—it’s a gentle push to get out of our own way, embrace micro-connections, and start building the community we’re all craving. Let’s talk real village-building—no leprechaun glitter required.Timestamps:(00:03:48) "Moms' Frustration in Modern Parenting Roles"(00:06:23) Modern Parenting Challenges in Childhood Activities(00:18:01) Navigating Toxic and Dysfunctional Family Relationships(00:22:08) Healing Family Dynamics Through Addressing Trauma(00:25:47) Healing Through Compassionate Family Communication(00:28:04) "Influences of Teenage Years on Parenting"(00:37:15) Supportive Connections in Motherhood(00:43:05) Embracing Imperfections and Finding ConnectionJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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227: Downtime (Bite Size Nugget)
Let’s talk about mental health-and not just ours, but our kids’. With everything moving at lightning speed these days, our littles are feeling the pressure too. And while structured environments like daycare and preschool might be necessary (and even great in moderation!), too much of it can start to wear on their nervous systems.In this episode, I’m getting into why unstructured, independent play isn’t just “nice”-it’s necessary. Kids need time to decompress, to get bored, to create from scratch using simple, open-ended materials. This is how their brains reset. This is how they process the world.With my background in child development and psychology, I’ve seen firsthand how giving kids more space and fewer adult-led activities can support their mental health in big ways. We don’t need to throw out structure completely-but we do need to balance it with freedom. Because kids deserve to just be, not constantly perform.Timestamps:(00:00:00) Promoting Mental Well-being Through Kids' Downtime(00:00:56) The Importance of Unstructured Play for KidsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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226: Mouth Breathing, Bedwetting & Behavior: The Hidden Connection with Dr. Kassi Klein.
In this eye-opening episode of Oh Crap with Jamie, I’m joined by pediatric airway dentist Dr. Kassi Klein to talk about something that’s affecting way more kids than you might think: airway health. From mouth breathing and bedwetting to sleep struggles and ADHD-like behavior, Dr. Kassi helps us connect the dots between jaw development, oral habits, and the behavioral and developmental challenges we often chalk up to “just being a kid.”Whether your child snores, grinds their teeth, struggles to sleep, or seems to have constant meltdowns - you need to hear this. We’re diving into the overlooked signs of airway issues, the long-term impact of underdeveloped jaws, and what parents can actually do to help.Timestamps:(00:03:20) Early Recognition for Children's Sleep Breathing Problems(00:05:17) Signs of Pediatric Airway Obstruction in Children(00:13:54) Maxillary Width and Nasal Breathing Efficiency(00:15:24) Optimal Tongue Placement for Nasal Breathing(00:19:45) Improving Oral Health Through Myofunctional Therapy(00:20:39) Tongue Function Impact on Picky Eating(00:22:32) Optimizing Airway Function for Improved SleepIG: @Dr. Kassi Kleinhttps://www.airwayhealthsolutions.comhttps://vivos.comhttps://www.toothpillow.comJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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225: Bite size nugget: Are you traumatizing your kid?
Hey guys - welcome to the very first Mini Nugget! These shorter episodes are for the things that don’t need a full hour but definitely need to be said. And this week? We’re talking about the word trauma, and how casually tossing it around might actually be making parenting harder. I’m breaking down the difference between Big T and Little t trauma, sharing what isn’t traumatizing (spoiler: your kid being mad about the red cup isn’t trauma), and why we need to stop walking on eggshells trying to protect our kids from every uncomfortable feeling. If you’ve ever worried, “Am I traumatizing my child?” - this one’s for you. Tune in, take a breath, and let’s bring some perspective back into parenting. Rock on.Timestamps:(00:00:50) "People who are traumatizing their children don't care if they're traumatizing their children. So that's a really good litmus test." (00:05:32) "Trauma is usually not about the actual event, but it is about what isn't said or done after the event." (00:10:44) "We've become a trauma drenched society and it's just, it's too much." Jamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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224: The Sh*t Sandwiches of Parenthood: Hard Choices That Make Life Easier
Hey friends! In this episode of Oh Crap with Jamie, I’m coming in hot with a real talk rant about the “sh*t sandwich” of modern parenthood—where you're constantly forced to choose between two crappy options and expected to smile through it.We’re talking about burnout, the myth of having it all, and why family dinner might not be the sacred ritual we’ve made it out to be.I’m sharing what finally helped me stop crashing into the end of the day, why routines matter (yes, even for grownups), and how small shifts like "landing" before dinner can change everything.This one’s part rant, part permission slip, and part call to make some bold, grown-up choices that actually support your life. Let’s throw out the noise, simplify where we can, and get real about what we need. Let’s go!Timestamps:(00:07:38) Transitioning Roles: The Family "Landing" Moment(00:09:33) Playground Meetups: Strengthening Family Bonds(00:14:58) Early Family Dinners Fostering Strong Connections(00:19:42) Child Sleep Schedules: Prioritizing Consistency and Needs(00:23:07) Supporting Work-Life Balance with Household Roles(00:28:55) Money Habits Shaped by Upbringing and Experiences(00:36:58) Financial Strain of Dual Incomes and Childcare(00:38:41) Reevaluating Vacation Choices for Personal AlignmentJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein Sticks
A podcast for conscious parents who drop the f-bomb. A lot. We are the overthinkers, the dreamers, and the doers. We are parenting in a radically different way than those before us. But our divine vision gets blurry cause...OMG...kids can be such a pain in the ass. Let's work from the inside out, in a whole brain, whole body way to mitigate the crappy behavior. Not just with our kids but with ourselves. So you can be the parent you envision.
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