there was a time when your best mates lived five steps away, plans were made in the kitchen at 11pm, and your wardrobe was basically communal. now... everyone’s busy, plans need two weeks’ notice, and borrowing a top isn’t just casual anymore – it actually requires asking. in this episode, we’re talking about the weird grief of post-uni friendship and all the things we miss, it's not just you that wishes you could go back and relive it all.
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would you do these things with your best mate?
it’s time to chat about amber flags in friendships. would you share your mates toothbrush? pants? hold their hand? is having your friends on ‘find my friends’ normal or weird? this episode is a laugh as we contemplate the things people do with their friends that either feel normal or slightly concerning to us
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i'm 26 and i've never had a boyfriend
we're back with a fan favourite, a follow up from an old episode 'i'm 24 and I've never had a boyfriend' – two years later and she's still living the single life 🤯 soph discusses why she's never been in a relationship and we conclude it's really not that strange. it's not just you who's wondered if you're the only one who's never dated or if there's something wrong with you because you've never had a boyfriend?!
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i can't stop comparing myself to my best friend
we know comparison is the thief of joy but what happens when you can’t stop comparing yourself to your best friend? in this episode soph opens up about a difficult season of our friendship where she felt like every aspect of her life was falling short next to rach’s. from relationships, to friendships, to career, it felt all consuming. if you’ve ever felt like you're measuring yourself against someone you love, this one’s for you!
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i have big dreams and i feel stuck
ever struggled to feel content in the season you’re in? or felt like you have big dreams but have no idea how to pursue them? you’re not alone! today we’re joined by our visionary of a friend, connie. she shares her story, including the way she went from being made redundant to moving to london and getting a dream job in the creative industry with steven bartlett.
join us for honest conversation as we address ‘the things everyone feels but no one really speaks about’. we’re soph and rach, two girls who met at uni six years ago and have been inseparable ever since. one of our favourite things to do is chat ‘life’. whether it’s navigating change, embracing the single life, having tricky conversations with friends or straight up questioning the meaning of life, we’ve probably discussed it and now, we want to bring YOU in on our chats. sometimes you need to know it’s not just you! potentially *too much* vulnerability and plenty of giggles also included.