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Most people think getting rich is about saving harder or finding the next hot stock. It's not. It's about owning things. After 15 years on Wall Street, I learned the hard way that the wealthy don't get there by trading time for money or chasing tickers. They build ownership in boring, cash-flowing businesses that most people overlook.

In this episode, I break down the exact investment framework I use today: just three categories I actually care about, why I ignore single stocks and hot tips, and how private business ownership became my unfair advantage. We dive into why Buffett doubled his money at 20% per year while the S&P did half that, why leverage magnifies your mistakes more than your wins, and why volatility isn't risk — not knowing what you're doing is.

But this isn't theory. It's applied finance from the trenches. You'll learn:• Why the market is more concentrated and leveraged than almost any point in modern history• How to think like Buffett: buy businesses, not price movements• Why inflation and AI are quietly eating your W2 income while you sleep• The difference between speculation and actual investing (and why most people confuse the two)• How one woman bought six pack-and-ship stores while keeping her tech job• Why Charlie Munger said the best businesses don't require you to be a genius to run them• The three types of risk in every deal: product, market, and execution• How to negotiate by understanding the seller's incentives, not just your own• Why speed and ownership are the only real hedges against what's coming

If you're tired of watching your salary get chipped away by inflation, or if you've ever wondered how people actually build wealth without a finance degree or a trust fund, this episode will change how you think about money, ownership, and what it actually takes to win in 2026.

Also hi I’m Codie and I run an investment and advisory firm that helps you buy and build businesses. Every year we do one 3 day virtual workshop to help you find, finance and learn to do deals live. Come learn what Wall Street (and your boss or competitors) hope you never learn: https://contrarianthinking.biz/MSML_BDYT26

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00:00:00 Introduction
00:00:22 The Three-Investment Portfolio: Why Less Is More
00:00:59 Buffett's 5.5 Million Percent Return: The Power of Selectivity
00:01:45 The 2026 Market Warning: Debt, AI Valuations, and Leverage Risk
00:03:40 Volatility Is Not Risk: Risk Is Not Knowing What You're Doing
00:07:43 The Asset Ownership Race With AI: Own the Farm or Be the Donkey
00:09:10 Main Street Millionaire Live: Your Path to Business Ownership
00:10:16 Build Durable Advantages: Moats, Brands, and Networks That Protect Profits
00:10:39 Nui's Story: From Big Tech to Six Pack and Ship Stores
00:14:20 Charlie Munger on Simple Business Models: Take a Simple Idea Seriously
00:15:30 The Three Risks Framework: Product, Market, and Execution
00:16:37 The Power of Incentives: Understanding What Drives Every Deal
00:18:13 Speed Wins: Why Moving Fast Makes You More Money
00:20:15 The Main Street Revolution: Your Generational Wealth Creation Event

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Money advice is broken. It’s either shamey, gatekept, or written for people who already have money. Vivian Tu built her career proving there’s a better way. After learning how money actually moves inside Wall Street at JPMorgan, she left the system and taught millions how to win at it anyway through Your Rich BFF. No jargon. No guilt. Just systems that work.

Vivian is a former Wall Street trader turned financial educator and founder of Your Rich BFF, one of the largest personal finance platforms in the world. She’s known for translating complex money rules into clear, actionable playbooks for people who were never taught how wealth is built or protected.

She breaks down:• Why buy-now-pay-later isn’t convenience, it’s a quiet wealth killer• How to calculate your “walk away” number and what it actually unlocks• Why budgeting fails when it’s about restriction instead of design• The invisible tactics advertisers use to drain your financial discipline• How wealthy families transfer money intentionally while everyone else leaves it to chance• Why housing, wages, and timing really are stacked against younger generations• The only kind of income that compounds without burning you out• How to handle your first $10K without overthinking it• Why prenups are protection, not a lack of trust• How to split money with a partner in a way that’s fair, not equal

This isn’t theory or hustle culture. It’s applied finance from someone who’s seen how the game is played behind closed doors and decided to explain it in plain English. If money has ever felt overwhelming, confusing, or emotionally loaded, this conversation rewires how you think about it and what’s actually possible.

Check out Vivian's new book Well Endowed: The Secrets to Strategic Spending, Building a Financial Foundation for You and Your Family, and Creating Lasting Generational Wealth here: https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/wellendowed

And follow her at @YourRichBFF on all platforms.

***Also hi I’m Codie and I run an investment and advisory firm that helps you buy and build businesses. Every year we do one 3 day virtual workshop to help you find, finance and learn to do deals live. Come learn what Wall Street (and your boss or competitors) hope you never learn. https://contrarianthinking.biz/MSML_BDYT26

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00:00:00 Introduction
00:01:16 The Buy Now Pay Later Trap: How Creative Debt Keeps You Broke
00:03:45 It's Harder to Be Young Today: The Math Behind Generational Wealth Inequality
00:07:23 Temptation Touch Points: The Pixel Tracking System Designed to Drain Your Wallet
00:09:38 Willpower Is a Losing Game: Why Financial Discipline Beats Motivation
00:10:41 Wall Street's Biggest Lie: Rich People Talk About Money All the Time
00:14:12 Old Money vs New Money: Social Capital and the Unspoken Club
00:18:31 Financial Choreography: How Rich People Strategically Move Money Through Life
00:19:50 Main Street Millionaire Live: Your Path to Business Ownership
00:20:24 Prenups Are Insurance, Not Distrust: The Government Default Agreement
00:24:20 Equitable vs Equal: The Math of Splitting Expenses in Relationships
00:29:59 Budgeting Needs a New PR Team: The 50-30-20 Framework That Actually Works
00:31:48 Automate Your Savings: The Paycheck Portal Hack That Builds Wealth Invisibly
00:34:19 Emergency Funds and the Levers: How Much Cash Should You Actually Keep
00:37:17 Calculate Your F You Number: The 4 Percent Rule for Financial Freedom
00:39:58 The Four-Square Money Talk: What to Know Before You Marry Someone
00:48:40 Well in Doubt: Building Your Personal Endowment for Life
00:50:44 Your First Ten Thousand Dollars: The Exact Allocation Strategy
00:53:58 Passive Income Is a Lie Unless You Own Something
00:56:39 Money as a Mirror: Why Your Financial Reality Reflects Your Self-Belief

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If you feel mentally crowded, over-influenced, or disconnected from your own powers, today’s episode is for you. It’s about how stepping back — intentionally — can restore clarity, confidence, and direction.

We explore why solitude isn’t loneliness, but a practical tool for better decisions and stronger self-trust. Drawing from Carl Jung’s idea of individuation, Nietzsche’s writing on original thought, and examples like Sarah Blakely building Spanx against outside advice, the episode looks at how people develop an internal compass instead of borrowing one from the world.

I also introduce the “Inner Board Meeting” framework: a way to separate the voices of vision, execution, and self-protection so choices come from your core, not reactivity. Along the way, we examine burnout as identity suppression, midlife crises as unmet meaning, and the hidden cost of being too available to others. The goal isn’t withdrawal—it’s learning how to hear yourself again.

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00:00:00 Introduction
00:00:42 The Crisis of Solitude: Why You Need to Be Alone
00:02:21 Carl Jung's Individuation: Becoming Who You Truly Are
00:02:44 The Psyche Map: Ego, Persona, Shadow, and Self
00:03:54 Energy Vampires: Why Being Too Available Drains You
00:09:03 The Inner Board Meeting: Dialogue With Your Inner Voices
00:12:09 Nietzsche on Solitude: Flee Into Your Solitude
00:14:19 Sarah Blakely and the Path of Solitude
00:19:12 Strategic Non-Reactivity: The Bare Hibernating Method
00:21:05 Midlife Crisis as Opportunity: When Your Persona Cracks
00:22:02 Burnout is Shadow Suppression
00:26:23 The Self-Contract: Choosing Your Identity
00:28:20 Potential Is Worthless: Reality Over Possibility
00:29:57 Main Street Millionaire Live: Your Path to Business Ownership

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Most people think hard conversations are about winning. Charlamagne Tha God knows better - they’re about controlling the frame. After nearly three decades in radio — turning The Breakfast Club into a cultural force and surviving the internet’s loudest pile-ons — he’s learned why some people dominate conversations without being the smartest, loudest, or most liked.

In this no-filter episode, Charlamagne breaks down the exact frameworks he uses to handle toxic people, win high-stakes conversations, and stay grounded while millions are watching. We get into why he asks every question twice (“but why?”), how he stopped people-pleasing and started setting real boundaries, why gratitude beats ambition, and the brutal truth behind the rule of 10 — three people will love you, three will hate you, and the rest don’t care.

This isn’t theory. It’s applied psychology from the trenches. From quitting Twitter before it broke him, to the panic-attack mantra that saved his career, to why blue-collar work matters more than AI hype, to why 50 Cent-level petty can be oddly therapeutic. If difficult people drain you, boundaries feel hard, or you want to communicate with calm confidence in a world that rewards noise — this episode will permanently upgrade how you think, talk, and move.

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00:00:00 Introduction
00:01:17 The Art of the Interview: Why Matters Most
00:06:57 Obsession Is the Price of Greatness
00:12:45 Work-Life Balance and Living Life to Fuel Your Work
00:15:30 Einstein Time: You Create Your Own Time
00:20:08 The Rule of 10: Why You Can't Please Everyone
00:22:53 50 Cent's Level of Petty: The Power of Revenge
00:31:25 Verbally Abusive Relationships With Your Smartphone
00:40:12 The Black Effect Podcast Network: Building Empire
00:45:15 Money Is Not the Root of All Evil: Rewriting Your Money Story
00:51:18 God, Faith, and the Voice That Guides You
01:02:42 Blue Collar Jobs Are the Future: The Trade School Revolution
01:10:29 The Breakfast Club on Netflix and What's Next
01:10:28 Final Words: Gratitude, God, and Keeping It Real

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Most people think weakness is beaten with motivation. It’s not. Weakness is eliminated with standards. After years on Wall Street and building businesses, I learned the hard way that comfort kills more dreams than failure ever will. The people who break through don’t feel their way forward. They enforce rules on themselves.

In this raw episode, I break down eight brutal truths most people need to hear. Why motivation doesn’t kill weakness but standards do. Why your inner circle will either save or sabotage your life. Why confidence comes after action, not before. And why setting goals you never fully reach is one of the most unfair advantages in life. You’ll also learn why elite performance requires being a little unhinged, why you get paid to practice not perform, and why winners aren’t special, they’re obsessed with proving themselves.

This isn’t theory. It’s applied psychology backed by real research and hard lessons. From self-control predicting success more than IQ to social circles shaping outcomes, this episode will change how you think about discipline, standards, and what it actually takes to kill weakness for good.

Building real wealth doesn't require a flashy startup — it just takes one boring, cash-flowing business. Join me at Main Street Millionaire Live to get my exact playbook for finding, buying, and scaling a business. Stop wondering how ownership could change your life, and come find out: https://contrarianthinking.biz/MSML_BDYT26

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00:00:00 Introduction
00:01:45 How to Kill Weakness: Starve It
00:04:32 Your Inner Circle Will Ruin or Save Your Life
00:06:55 Work Ethic Eliminates Fear
00:09:31 Set Goals You Never Reach: The Unfair Unlock
00:11:39 Stop Normalizing Comfort
00:13:43 Elite Requires Unhinged
00:15:58 You Get Paid to Practice, Not Play the Game
00:17:44 Stop Pitying Weakness, Including Your Own
00:21:14 You Don't Need Confidence: Just Keep Trying

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