New House Q&A: Buying before marriage, splitting costs & what’s next
This week on Two Parents & A Podcast, we’re diving into a full-on NEW HOUSE Q&A— and answering everything you guys have been asking (s/o to everyone that asked questions on TikTok!!! We are having so much fun sharing this journey with you guys). We get into how we made the decision to buy, what it was like navigating the process so fast (literally and figuratively - like we have only been dating 1.5 years!!), and exactly how we’re splitting the cost (spoiler: it’s not as simple as 50/50.) We’re also talking long-term plans, if we’ll stay in this house forever, and what we’ve learned so far from doing it all together.
Before we get into that, we’re covering the usual IRL updates — are we too old to be “cool”? Was missing the Easter egg hunt a parenting fail? And what exactly does your girlfriend mean when she says she’s “good with anything” for dinner?
In Things We DMed Each Other: Revolve’s in legal hot water and apparently reading books out loud to your partner is the new love language.
LOVE YOU GUYS! Thanks for listening :-)
00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast!!!
00:04:55 Have we aged out of being “cool”? Bet
00:11:00 Mom guilt after missing the easter egg hunt
00:16:25 Does your girlfriend do THIS when you go out to eat?!
00:20:15 Q&A: A good relationship takes work
00:29:50 Q&A: How did we navigate buying a house together so quickly?
00:33:56 Q&A: Renting vs. buying our current house
00:37:54 Q&A: The house buying process
00:39:43 Q&A: Our future plans for the house
00:44:25 Q&A: How we’re splitting the cost of the house
00:53:11 Q&A: How long do we think we’ll stay in the house?
00:54:40 Things We DMed Eachother: Revolve hit with $50M lawsuit
01:00:50 Things We DMed Eachother: Reading to your partner
01:05:25 LOVE YOU GUYS!
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1:07:46
We bought our first home
Happy Thursday! This episode is a ROLLER COASTER - but spoiler alert: WE GOT THE HOUSE (ps. sorry in advance for checking for texts and taking a mid-podcast call but you guys REALLY get to come along for the ride tonight.)
And in between our house updates:
We’re officially sleeping again (!!) thanks to the 5-10-15 method, baby exercises (??), and ChatGPT. We also talk about using AI to plan our date night (wild), double date dynamics, and why “dad bod summer” is officially here.
Plus, we talk about the little white lies we tell kids (we’ve decided our tooth fairy is gonna be from Canada).
And in Things We DMed Each Other, we talk about the $3800 baby carrier that Artipoppe just dropped (and why we know our $30 Amazon one is better) + a cute family moment and some fun brand activations at Coachella.
Oh and Harrison also somehow is getting scammed AGAIN (we don’t know how either).
We LOVE YOU GUYS!
Timestamps:
00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast!
00:01:41 Weekly House Update pt. 1 (if you’re only here for the housing update go to pt. 2 at the end LOL)
00:03:50 Planning your next date night with AI?!
00:05:55 A new double date dynamic
00:14:45 We’re finally sleeping!!!
00:21:24 The little white lies we tell kids (unicorns + fairies)
00:28:10 Things We DMed Each Other: A 3800 baby carrier?!
00:31:54 Dad bod summer
00:35:16 Things We DMed Each Other: Is Coachella back?
00:40:20 Shouting out some fun brands
00:42:15 Harrison is getting scammed (AGAIN AGAIN?!)
00:46:20 Weekly House Update pt. 2 (spoiler alert: WE GOT THE HOUSE)
00:50:33 LOVE YOU GUYS
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51:58
Should you let your baby “cry it out”? (+ Tap-to-pay & good karma)
Happy Thursday! This week on Two Parents & A Podcast, we’re TIRED (sorry!!!) — we’re low on sleep over here, but we’re sharing what we’re doing to try and fix that. We dive into the age-old debate: should you let your baby “cry it out”? (We’re figuring it out in real time.) And of course, we talk about all the sleep-deprived mishaps—can’t pay for dinner, left the car running, lost phones... it’s been a week.
We also give a quick house update (spoiler alert: we still don’t know what’s happening, and we’re supposed to move in a week—fun!!).
And in Things We DMed Each Other, we discovered laptops maybe shouldn’t sit on your lap?? Add that to the list of things no one warned us about.
And for this week’s brain break—well, we needed one. So much so that we literally couldn’t remember what we were supposed to talk about.
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast
00:02:05 Is food before 1 just for fun?
00:06:29 Weekly house update (kind of lol)
00:14:07 Breaking rules & bad karma
00:21:47 Tap-to-pay incident
00:27:07 We’re a little sleep deprived
00:29:22 Should you let your baby “cry it out”?
00:46:40 Dining out is getting harder
00:48:20 Things We DMed Eachother: Laptops shouldn’t sit on your lap?!
00:52:35 LOVE YOU GUYS!
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57:08
You can’t buy good neighbors (+ building your village & communication in relationships)
Happy Thursday! This week on Two Parents & A Podcast, we’re talking about what it really means to have good neighbors—because as you guys put it, “you can renovate a house, but you can’t buy good neighbors.”
We start with some Year 1 milestone updates (why am I irrationally sad?!), from moving Tate into her own room to starting solids (Harrison has officially been named Chief Solids Officer). Plus, we recap our first annual neighborhood block party—a new tradition in the making!
Next, we break down what today’s ‘village’ to raise a child actually looks like—and specifically, how we’ve built ours. Then, we’re diving into communication in relationships (and in general!)—the good, the bad, and why ‘clean’ means something completely different to both of us.
In Things We DMed Each Other, we have to talk about Frida’s breast milk-flavored ice cream (yes, really—it’s not an April Fools’ joke). And finally, we’re (well actually just me Harrison had to leave for a meeting LOL) responding to your comments before wrapping up.
We LOVE YOU GUYS!
Timestamps
00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast
00:02:33 Year 1 milestone updates - moving baby to own room and solids update
00:11:33 Our first annual neighborhood block party
00:20:23 You can’t buy good neighbors
00:26:13 What does today’s ‘village’ to raise a child look like?
00:32:50 Communication in relationships
00:39:10 Different definitions of clean
00:46:05 Things We DMed: Frida Breast Milk-Flavored Ice Cream
00:51:30 Responding To The Comments
00:52:43 LOVE YOU GUYS!
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54:07
Being the “default parent” (+ moving into a hotel & crying babies on planes)
Happy Thursday! This week, we dive into “default parent syndrome”—what it means, how it’s not good or bad (unless you’re experiencing it and you think it is!!), and how it could be your own fault if you’re the default parent?? But first - we talk about our housing update (I think we’re moving into a hotel… Eloise at the Plaza 🤝 Tate at the [insert Austin hotel here]), recap our Aspen trip (plus answered your questions about we handled childcare while traveling) and is it OK for babies to cry on planes (+ a bunch more of airplane talk lol).
In Things We DMed Each Other, we talk about Frontier clapping back at Southwest and the viral TikTok trend on teaching kids to share.
Then, we’re responding to your comments (trying this for the first time!!!) about building family traditions. And in this week’s Brain Break, we read a sweet (but hilarious) text from Harrison’s dad.
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast!
00:01:20 We made our “What Happens If…” housing plan
00:07:55 Aspen trip recap
00:13:33 How to find child care while traveling
00:19:33 The most amazing customer service experience
00:24:42 Crying babies on airplanes
00:32:05 Things We DMed Each Other: Southwest vs. Frontier
00:38:16 Things DMed Each Other: Teaching Kids to Share on TikTok
00:42:20 Responding To The Comments: Building Family Traditions
00:45:50 Listener Question: Being the “default parent” is exhausting…
00:58:20 Brain Break: A text from Harrison’s dad
01:00:02 LOVE YOU GUYS!
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