Ripple-Effect Faith with Twyla Franz

Where do you feel the pressure to be on par with someone else? To prove yourself worthy? To pretend your way into confidence?
 
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I've got a thing with control. I like to paint it as a virtue because self-control sounds less harsh. Like less of a problem. But it actually isn't. 
Your need to feel in control might come out in different ways than mine. Perhaps you vocalize more than internalize. Perhaps you extend your controlling efforts externally rather than internally. But it's the same thieving trio–fear, pride, and shame–eroding your peace, dimming your light, and keeping you in a rut.
 
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Can we go there–to the root of our unruly inner dialogues–so we can find peace and strength and mental relief? That's my invitation to you today. 
Our inner thoughts have had too much say for too long. They keep us in the shadows, thinking small. They sabotage our friendships and our focus. Cloud out the voice of God so we think we're on our own.
Where do we start? Here, with five easy-to-implement practices to keep our self-talk in check. 
 
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Maybe there's a similarly pesky voice of perfectionism following you around inside your head, telling you that you should be able to get incrementally better. Every. Single. Day.
It's relentless.
You're worn out from all your undue try-hard. 
But also, maybe you carry a bit of shame around with your perfectionism. 
You're told you worry too much.
Focus on the wrong things.
Care too much about your work.
Can we talk about you? How you can be a perfectionist and have peace of mind? How you don't have to turn off your desire to do your best? How your perfectionism can be an asset, not just to you or a supervisor, but for God's kingdom?
 
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Self-doubt surfaces quickly when it's thinly veiled behind borrowed confidence and temperamental self-esteem. Maybe this is your story.
To others, you appear secure, but you feel deeply insufficient inside. You can take the lead, finish the work, maintain a high standard of excellence, and pass as having it together. But you can't outrun the voice that whispers, 
If only they knew how little you know, how long you've been in this role, or how lost you feel . . .
If only they knew how un-brave and undeserving you actually are . . .
If only they knew how meticulously you mask the peculiar aspects of your personality . . .
If only they knew the 14-year-old inferiority you never outgrew . . .
I've given ground to similar, self-sabataging thoughts. Spun in circles fueled by incessant overthinking. Second-guessed my way to the safest way forward.
I admit I've dismissed myself before anyone else could. Pulled away from friendships, convinced I'm more burden than blessing. Deflected praise because I disbelieve my own worth. 
If you are nodding your head to any of this, there is hope. I wish we could sit down together and remind each other of what's irrevocably true of us. But maybe the reason we don't believe it yet is because we've skipped a step, so let's start there.
 
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