Courtney Doctor talks with Whitney Pipkin and Wendy Alsup, two of her friends who have known deep grief. They talk about why grief can be so surprising, why God allows it, and how to talk to a friend who is grieving (hint: it’s better to listen). Whitney talks about why we shouldn’t rush through grief; it’s appropriate to rage against death! Wendy says that we can see our grief as our resistance to the effects of the Fall. Listen to this episode and be comforted that even if grief feels strange and disorienting, you are not alone. Recommended Resources:We Shall All Be Changed by Whitney PipkinCompanions in Suffering: Comfort for Times of Loss and Loneliness by Wendy AlsupRelated Content:What I Misunderstood About GriefDark Clouds, Deep Mercy by Mark VroegopGrief Is Not an Enemy of FaithDiscussion Questions:What personal experiences with loss have you (or those close to you) had? Or in what ways do you relate to feeling “immune” from loss?How has experiencing suffering or loss changed you or your outlook on life?How can believers grieve in ways that acknowledge the need to lament as well as maintain hope?In what ways did this episode challenge you to be a better companion to someone walking through a season of suffering?What Scriptures have comforted or ministered to you in hard seasons?How did this conversation help you consider gratitude alongside grief and loss?
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Season 1: Your Questions, Our Answers
Melissa Kruger and Courtney Doctor respond to questions submitted by listeners such as what advice they have for newlyweds, how women can thoughtfully have relationships with their pastors and elders, their go-to verses for lonely times, and last but not least, their favorite pizza toppings!New episodes of The Deep Dish will now be released every other Thursday. Sign up for exclusive content for women and updates on The Deep Dish podcast here. Recommended Resources:Parenting with HopeThe Lord’s Work in the Lord’s Way“‘Tis So Sweet to Trust in Jesus”Related Content:TGC Q&A PodcastLet’s Talk: Your Questions, Answered!Questions Discussed:What’s a good way to get constructive criticism on Bible teaching without falling into people pleasing?What are some practical ways to teach a teen to read and study the Word without her feeling forced?How did you know it was time to go to seminary? What advice would you give women considering seminary?How do you grow relationships with pastors and elders as a female church member?What practical tips can you give on asking questions that get conversations going and reach the heart?I’m getting married this fall to a wonderfully godly man. Do you have advice or encouragement for newlyweds?What has helped you grow in affection for the Lord?What are your go-to verses for lonely seasons of life?What are your favorite pizza toppings?
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Kitchen Table Counseling Within Your Local Church
Melissa Kruger and Courtney Doctor talk about how to seek out the counsel of wise friends and how to respond well when friends seek your counsel. They discuss how to ask good questions, how to deliver a gentle rebuke when necessary, how to follow up on requests for accountability, and how to point someone to Scripture without treating it like a Bible Band-Aid. Listen prayerfully to prepare yourself for opportunities that arise to bear one another’s burdens.Recommended Resources:I’m Praying for You by Nancy GuthrieCount It All Joy by Helen RoseveareRelated Content:7 Things to Say to a Hurting Loved OneWhy Mentoring Is Better Than Asking AlexaThe Neglected Ministry of Asking QuestionsDiscussion Questions:1. Considering examples of people who have supported you in difficult seasons, what qualities do you appreciate most in them?2. In what ways have you struggled to balance extending both grace and truth in your own “kitchen-table counseling”?3. How can we ensure any necessary rebukes we deliver are given with gentleness?4. What helps you determine whether someone is “safe” to confess a burden or sin to?5. In what ways could you make yourself a more approachable and available source of counsel for those who need your support?6. How can your discussion partners pray for you as you point others to God in difficult situations?
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Romans 8 Deserves a Deep Dive
Melissa Kruger and Courtney Doctor talk with Trillia Newbell about the depth and richness of Romans 8. They explain how to understand Romans 8 in the context of the previous chapters, why there’s no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, how to let that truth make a difference in your life, and how to respond to the question “If there’s no condemnation for me, why am I suffering?” We hope you will open your Bibles and dive in!Recommended Resources:If God Is For Us by Trillia NewbellIn View of God’s Mercies by Courtney DoctorCelebrating Around the Table by Trillia NewbellRelated Content:Living in the Hope of Liberation from BondageThe Good News of Romans 8If God Is for Us: Standing Accused with Romans 8Discussion Questions:Romans 8:1 says there is no condemnation for those in Christ. How does this verse reshape your thinking about areas of guilt or shame in your life?What’s one area of your life where you need to intentionally walk in the Spirit rather than the flesh? What’s one step you can take this week to move in that direction?How does the truth of Romans 8:18 (“the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us”) bring hope to seasons of waiting or hardship? How have you personally experienced this hope?How did this conversation help you understand what “good” means in the context of Romans 8:28 ("all things work together for good")? How can this shift our expectations when life doesn’t go as planned?Reflecting on Romans 8:35–39, which truths are most meaningful to you in combating the lie that God doesn’t love you? How would you encourage another woman who is struggling to believe she is more than a conqueror through Christ (Romans 8:37)?
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Your Church Needs You to Show Up
Melissa Kruger and Courtney Doctor talk with Vanessa Hawkins about the vital and beautiful role church should have in the life of every Christian. They discuss what keeps people from regular church attendance and how to move beyond church hurt. They talk about why your church attendance and involvement is not only necessary for your own spiritual growth, but for the other members of the body of Christ.Recommended Resources:Deep Discipleship by J. T. EnglishSighing on Sunday by Megan HillA Place to Belong by Megan HillWestminster Confession of Faith“Father, I Stretch My Hands to Thee”Related Content:The Church Is Essential for DiscipleshipWant to Reach the Next Generation? Love the Church.5 Reasons to Keep Going to Church with Baby BrainLet’s Talk: Overcoming Church HurtDiscussion Questions:In what ways are you currently “showing up” (or not showing up) in your church community?What is most likely to keep you from showing up at church, either literally or figuratively?How have you experienced being known, loved, and cared for by the church?What has your participation in your church community taught you about God and what he values? What liturgies or traditions in your church are most meaningful to you?What encouragement would you offer someone who has been hurt by people within the church? If this is you, what has helped you persevere in seeing the church's beauty?What change or next step would you like to take regarding your engagement in your church? How can your discussion partners pray for you?
The Deep Dish is a new podcast from TGC hosted by Melissa Kruger and Courtney Doctor that invites women into deep conversations about the deep truths of God. These discussions (which are always better served up with a slice of deep-dish pizza!) will equip women to engage in richer discipleship relationships in their local contexts. Tune in for warm conversations among friends—including special guests along the way—to dig deeper into God’s Word and explore how it applies to every area of our lives.
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