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Episode 75: Protecting Your Child's Digital Footprint in the Era of Oversharing with Fareedah Shaheed
We live in the age of "sharenting" where kids are content and there are seemingly no rules. This week, Rachael speaks with Fareedah Shaheed (aka CyberFareedah), an internet safety expert, about the importance of protecting our kids online.
They discuss the risks of sharing too much information about children on social media and the potential consequences of oversharing. They also explore the age-appropriate use of technology and provide tips for keeping kids safe online. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication, trust, and setting boundaries to ensure the safety of children in the digital world. Here's what you'll learn:
The Risks of Oversharing on Social Media (even with private accounts!)
Age-Appropriate Technology Use and Setting Boundaries
The Types of Photos You Should NEVER Share
When it Might be Appropriate for Kids to Have Their Own Devices
Tips for Keeping Kids Safe Online
Fareedah is a Forbes 30 Under 30 Internet Safety Expert whose passion is helping parents keep their children safe online. With a professional background in cybersecurity and threat intelligence, Fareedah uses her online platforms to teach parents the SAFE Method—a unique approach to teaching internet safety that emphasizes the need for creating safe spaces between parent and child as the cornerstone of protecting kids online.
Fareedah (known online as CyberFareedah) has been featured in Cisco, CNN, The Wall Street Journal, Fortune, NASDAQ, FOX 46, NBC4, Yahoo! and more.
Fareedah’s Instagram: @cyberfareedah and Website: https://www.cyberfareedah.com
Free Protect Kids Online Resource Library: https://sekuva.mykajabi.com/get-your-internet-safety-resource-library
Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast.
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Episode 74: Postpartum Nutrition, Meal Prep, Minerals and more with Allegra Gast, RDN IBCLC
Postpartum nutrition is SO important and yet as busy and tired moms, it's hard to prioritize. That's why this week Rachael brings on Allegra Gast, a functional registered dietitian and international board-certified lactation consultant, to talk all about realistic, easy tips for postpartum nutrition and breastfeeding. Inside this episode you'll learn:
importance of nutrition for postpartum recovery and milk supply
how new moms often experience fatigue, brain fog and rage/ low mood because of depleted nutrients and minerals
tips for maintaining energy levels as a new mom (even when you're sleep deprived!)
how to create easy balanced meals with adequate protein, quality carbohydrates, healthy fats, and minerals
meal prep tips for busy parents
how food can help balance blood sugar and energy levels
how our nervous system is affected by improper nutrition
benefits of hair mineral testing
and much more!
Allegra Gast is a functional registered dietitian and international board certified lactation consultant who is passionate about helping families navigate both their postpartum health and their breastfeeding journeys. Allegra offers virtual consults for families all around the world. She started her business, Aloha Nutrition, when she lived in Hawaii but currently resides in Texas with her military husband, and 4 kids including baby twins!
Allegra’s instagram: @aloha.nutrition
Aloha Nutrition Website: https://www.aloha-nutrition.com/
Hair tissue mineral testing: https://l.bttr.to/DYgUm
Free mineral guide: https://landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/y9a3e8
Postpartum nutrition course: https://education.aloha-nutrition.com/product/nourish-postpartum-nutrition-essentials/
✨For sleep support and resources, visit heysleepybaby.com and follow @heysleepybaby on Instagram! 😴☁️🤎✨
Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast.
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Episode 73: Choosing the Right Daycare and Tips for Transitioning with Elise Disher
This week we're speaking with with Elise Disher, M. Ed all about choosing the right daycare and how to transition your child in as seamlessly as possible. Childcare is such an important topic for parents and we know it can be fraught with worry! Here's what Rachael and Elise discuss inside the episode:
Why building relationships and attachment with staff is crucial during the transition into daycare or preschool
The benefits of a tailored and gradual approach to separation vs. "drop and go"
How parents can advocate for more involvement in the early learning environment and create familiarity for their child
Do children actually need daycare or preschool for socialization or social skills development in the first three years?
Quality early learning environments- what should they be prioritizing and what should parents look for and ask about when touring?
What parents should be focusing on during challenging behaviors
and much more!
Elise's work is all about promoting relationship-focused, attachment-based practices in early childhood settings. She consults with educators to help them implement these approaches and facilitate the Circle of Security program for both educators and families. She also supports families through key transitions into early childhood settings and provides guidance on navigating behavioral challenges. She is a mom to two little ones, aged 5 and 1, and brings over 18 years of experience working in the early childhood profession as an educator, teacher, director, and consultant. She holds a Master of Education and is a certified Circle of Security facilitator as well as a holistic sleep and wellbeing coach.
Her goal is to help build strong, secure connections between children and the adults in their lives, offering the support needed to thrive through the many stages of early childhood.
Find her here:
Elise’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elisedisher.ed/?hl=en
Elise’s Courses:
Supporting and advocating for a quality orientation support package
Masterclass - The brain behind behaviour- Understanding and responding to emotions and behaviours effectively
Circle of Security Parent Interest Form
Website umeplay.com.au
Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast.
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✨For sleep support and resources, visit heysleepybaby.com and follow @heysleepybaby on Instagram! 😴☁️🤎✨
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Episode 72: Postpartum Supports We Love: Babywearing, Doulas and Mental Health Care with Kay Medeiros
In this episode Rachael and guest Kay chat candidly about the postpartum experience. Kayleigh Medeiros, owner at Heritage Baby Designs and postpartum doula and lactation counselor, discusses her journey into the world of baby wearing and the importance of postpartum support. Rachael and Kay discuss:
the history and newer "trends" of babywearing
physical and emotional benefits of baby wearing, such as convenience, bonding, and increased milk production.
tips for safe baby wearing, including the T.I.C.K.S. acronym: tight but not too tight, in view at all times, close enough to kiss, keep off the chest, and supported back.
the importance of getting fresh air and movement for both the parent and the baby, even in cold weather climates.
postpartum doula support and the role of a doula in helping new parents navigate the challenges of the postpartum period.
the importance of community support for new parents.
Kayleigh Madeiros is owner at Heritage Baby Designs, postpartum doula and lactation counsellor moving towards her IBCLC. In her day job she's a franchise business consultant in food retail. Kay is a mom to three little ones and has been on this journey of discovering how she believes we should be supporting new parents and babies.
Mentioned in the episode:
Shop Heritage Baby Carriers
Kay's Instagram
Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast.
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✨For sleep support and resources, visit heysleepybaby.com and follow @heysleepybaby on Instagram! 😴☁️🤎✨
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Episode 71: Temperament, "Livewire" Children, and Sleep Challenges with Macall Gordon
In this episode,, Rachael is joined by an expert to discuss one of her favorite topics- temperament and sleep. McCall Gordon is a sleep researcher and author, and today she and Rachael delve into the complexities of a little-known but hugely important factor when it comes to sleep, parenting, and more: Temperament. Specifically, Rachael and Macall discuss what Macall refers to as “Livewire” children- those who are more sensitive, more reactive, and in need of different supports particularly when it comes to sleep. Inside this game-changing episode:
McCall shares her personal experiences with her 'livewire' child and discusses the importance of understanding different temperaments in your babies and children.
the signs of “high sensitivity”, the challenges of sleep for these children, and the limitations of traditional sleep training methods
the need for tailored approaches to parenting that consider a child's unique temperament and sensory processing needs.
The realities of sleep training for babies and children, and what the research really says about it
practical strategies for parents, including establishing consistent bedtime routines and recognizing the signs of overtiredness.
encouragement to exhausted parents, highlighting the non-intuitive nature of parenting and the need for self-compassion.
Macall has a B.S. in Human Biology from Stanford University and an M.A. in Applied Psychology from Antioch University, Seattle. She has conducted and presented research worldwide on sleep training advice, parenting, and the effect of temperament on sleep. She is also a certified Gentle Sleep Coach in private practice as well as with the women’s telehealth platform, Maven Clinic and has just published a book on sleep and temperament called "Why Won't You Sleep?! A Game-changing Approach for Exhausted Parents of Nonstop, Super Alert, Big Feeling Kids." She comes to this work because she had two of these children, and didn’t sleep for 18 years.
Mentioned in this episode:
Rachael's free sleep guides
Rachael's next TEMPERAMENT + SLEEEP WORKSHOP is Jan 30! Sign up here
http://www.littlelivewires.com
http://www.whywontyousleep.com
Take the Temperament Quiz
Macall’s new book on Amazon
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No One Told Us the truth about parenthood. WHY?!
Welcome to No One Told Us, the podcast where we uncover the raw, unfiltered truths about parenthood. I'm your host, Rachael Shepard-Ohta, mom of three and founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby. Each week, join me as we dive deep into the joys, challenges, and surprises of raising children with a mix of expert insights, personal anecdotes, and candid conversations.
From navigating postpartum anxiety to mastering the art of making mom friends, and from introducing solids to tackling tantrums, we cover it all. Whether you're a first-time parent or a seasoned pro, this podcast is your go-to resource for honest advice, relatable stories, and plenty of laughs along the way.
Join me as I sit down with experts in their fields, as well as friends, family, celebrities, and influencers, to share their experiences and wisdom on everything from sleepless nights to rocky relationships. No topic is off-limits, and no story goes untold on No One Told Us.
So grab a cup of coffee, pop in your headphones and join the conversation. This is the podcast everyone needed before they had kids- because now that those little ones are here, there's a lot to unpack. So let's pull back the curtain on becoming a first-time mom (or dad!) to share the good, the bad and the ugly. A little education, a little fun, and a whole lot of heart goes into each and every episode of No One Told Us to have you feeling less alone and way more empowered.
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