Christian Leaders Aren’t Falling Alone—We Pushed Them w/ Kris Vallotton
What if moral failure isn’t just a personal weakness… but something we’ve helped create?We’ve seen it too many times: another Christian leader falls. Another headline. Another apology video. But what if the root problem isn’t just lust or lack of accountability… what if it’s the culture we’ve built?In this episode, we sit down with Kris Vallotton — a leader who’s walked with pastors, pioneers, and fallen giants behind the scenes — to ask the hard questions: • How do you actually prevent moral failure, not just respond to it? • What are the warning signs no one talks about until it’s too late? • What kind of church culture actually fosters purity and integrity? • And when someone does fall… what does real restoration look like?Whether you’re a young leader, a disillusioned churchgoer, or someone who’s been burned by moral failure up close, this conversation is raw, honest, and necessary.This isn’t about blame. It’s about building a church culture where integrity can thrive before things fall apart.🎧Let’s talk about it.👇🏼============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ =============================(0:00) Intro to Episode(1:00) Intro to Kris(1:56) A discussion on moral failure(3:59) Convictions(4:00) Jack Hayford’s Example(8:35) External Boundaries and your Inner World(10:55) What’s really wrong?(13:23) The Crowd Crucifies(17:25) Relative Righteousness(18:34) No Place for Repentance?(19:25) The Process is Important(20:34) Creating the right atmosphere(22:50) Jesus heals the victim and the victimizer(23:21) Subscribe(24:07) The Slow Fade & Warning Signs(26:21) Never Trust Yourself By Yourself(27:51) Confession and Connection(33:10) Destructive Decisions(33:50) The Cost of Shame Culture(37:11) When People Mess Up, Lean In(38:56) Kris’s Heart for Restoration(40:51) Forgiveness Is Required, but Trust Isn’t(42:30) Nothing Happens Before Repentance(46:20) Restoring the Person(48:00) The Righteous Revolution(52:00) Change in the Church(54:02) Share it=============================Connect with us:=============================➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.comMiss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UU5efQ0LIqs
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Why You Can’t Find “The One”
Is there really one person out there you’re destined to marry? Or is that just something we’ve been told by movies, culture, and even church?In this episode, we take a clear, honest look at the idea of “the one” and where it actually comes from. Spoiler: it’s not the Bible.Questions we’re breaking down in this episode: Can you “miss” your person forever by making one wrong choice? If you married the wrong person, is your whole life off course now?Where did the idea of “the one” even come from?Do arranged marriages disprove the idea of “soulmates”?Why do so many people marry “the one”… and still get divorced?Is “God told me you’re the one” just Christian manipulation?Does God choose our spouse, or do we? And what’s our role in that decision?How do you decide if someone is “the one” for you?You’ll also hear Daniel’s personal story about how waiting for “the one” made this dating life difficult, examples from arranged marriages, and practical ways to shift from chasing perfection to building real connection.If you’ve ever wrestled with questions like “Did I miss it?” or “What if I marry the wrong person?”, this conversation brings clarity, biblical perspective, and hope.God gave you a mind, a community, and the ability to choose. Let’s talk about how to use them.=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Trailer(1:50) - Intro(2:33) - The ONE(2:44) - Does God have just one person for everyone?(3:03) - Your Calling might mean less options?(4:27) - Believers should marry believers(5:03) - There are WRONG options(7:04) - Can you MISS your person?(8:00) - Could it be a poverty mindset?(9:10) - What happens if you marry the wrong one?(9:29) - The right one is the one YOU choose(11:46) - Compatibility(12:35) - Outliers & Exceptions(14:30) - Where did this concept even come from??(16:34) - “God told me…”(16:38) - Why is the Bible silent?!!(19:18) - You are a powerful person!(20:03) - Subscribe(20:48) - What about arranged marriages?(22:38) - Soulmates(23:31) - The One and divorce? Selfishness(24:32) - Manipulation(26:06) - Daniel’s Story(28:17) - There is NO prescription(28:58) - HOW do you make the decision?(31:40) - TikTok: Steve Harvey(33:45) - What motivates your choice?(37:31) - Becoming the One(39:54) - “Your person”(43:01) - Compatibility over Perfection(47:40) - Leave a comment=============================Miss the last episode? Catch it here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6hM1x2Rj1w5EjwibZnYnlU?si=39c3e1556b324ac3=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com
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The Spiritual Reason You Can’t Move On
Sex isn’t just physical… and deep down, you know that. Let’s talk about soul ties, and how to break them for good.WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZojscaKClg&t=2529sEver felt stuck after a breakup? Like something deeper is still holding on?That might be a soul tie.In this raw and real convo, we unpack what soul ties actually are, how they form (hint: it’s not just sex), and why they can leave you feeling spiritually weighed down.We break down the Bible’s view on soul ties, how the enemy uses them to twist intimacy, and how Jesus brings full freedom and healing.Elles shares her own story of getting tangled in an unhealthy soul tie, and how God broke the cycle.If you're feeling tied to your past, this episode is your sign: God’s ready to set you free.=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰ =============================(0:00) - Intro(1:51) - Soul ties(3:51) - What even is a soul tie?(4:13) - Souls knitting together(5:23) - The context of marriage(5:33) - Sex means easy access(6:14) - God designs/Satan distorts(6:55) - The power of unity(8:38) - Terminology: Are soul ties biblical?!(13:24) - Unhealthy soul ties are no match for the power of God(14:24) - How do you know if you have a soul tie?(15:48) - TikTok: 5 Signs You Have A Soul Tie(17:31) - Soul Ties & Subtlety(18:03) - Elles’s Unhealthy Soul Tie(20:13) - Why soul ties form(22:40) - Watch What You SAY(23:33) - The Devil Is A Legalist(24:43) - Break Ups(25:53) - God is READY to heal you!(26:22) - Step into the LIGHT(27:33) - Cleansing(29:26) - Jesus purifies us!(30:21) - How do I build healthy soul ties??(31:43) - Prayer to break soul ties=============================Connect with us:=============================➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com=============================Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZojscaKClg&t=2529s
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Work Club 010 - The Aftermath of Healing
Ten episodes. A whole lot of healing.In this final episode of Work Club, we’re looking back on the wild, beautiful journey of unpacking our pain, facing fears, and letting God reshape how we do relationships. From shame to identity, family wounds to freedom—we didn’t hold back.Here’s what stuck with us. What surprised us. What changed us.God didn’t just show up—He flipped the script.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(1:38) - Biggest Breakthroughs from WorkClub(1:49) - Sam: Fear of Success (3:40) - Erin: Getting Rid of Fear (6:00) - Cliff Jumping(7:38) - Daniel Opens Up(11:00) - Sam’s Fear Encounter(13:20) - Elles & Hard Convos(15:35) - Daniel & Changing the Narrative(21:20) - Ingram & Graduating from Shame(25:40) - God Sees Us as His Children(28:00) - Final Thoughts(28:10) - Compassion & Connection & CS Lewis(30:19) - Hindsight Brings Clarity=============================Miss the first episode of the Work Club? Catch episode 1 here.=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com
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Work Club 009 - Joy Is A Weapon
Joy isn’t just a vibe—it’s a weapon.But let’s be honest: shame, comparison, and pressure steal it way too easily.In this episode of Work Club, we’re calling out the real joy-killers and sharing how we’re learning to fight for joy in a world that pushes quick fixes over deep fulfillment. From “puffy peace” to surrendering our own standards, this convo is raw, honest, and all about choosing the kind of joy that lasts.Because the joy of the Lord isn’t a cliché—it’s how we survive.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(1:07) - Finding Joy and Emotional Balance(1:35) - When was the last time you truly felt joyFULL?(1:41) - Erin the Stylist(2:48) - Ingram: Eye Contact(3:14) - Sam: Starting A Business(4:50) - A DEEP Sense of Fulfillment(5:24) - Building(6:09) - Puffy Peace(9:00) - Good Stewardship Brings Joy(10:02) - Don’t Waste Time Chasing Happiness(10:36) - Happiness is Consumed, but Joy is Created(11:50) - Joy Requires Effort(14:12) - We ALWAYS have Access to Joy(15:20) - Grow Your Capacity(16:40) - Elles: The Joy of the Lord IS our Strength(18:42) - What has zapped your joy?(19:00) - Shame(19:40) - Judgement and Criticism(20:35) - Other People (21:48) - Comparison(22:03) - Over-Analyzing(22:37) - How do you get back to joy?(23:00) - Surrendering my standards for the Lord’s(25:00) - Taking the pressure off!(26:00) - MR Team: Laughing at Ingram(27:01) - All the little things (27:58) - GRATITUDE(29:45) - Slip ’n Slide=============================Miss the first episode of the Work Club? Catch episode 1 here.=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com
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