"Men Find This IRRESISTIBLE!" 3 Ways to Seduce, Captivate & Leave Him Wanting More | Adam Lane Smith PT 2
In Part 2 of the transformative conversation on Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu and guest Adam Lane Smith move from the science of intimacy into the step-by-step tactics for building indestructible relationships. Adam, a sought-after relationship coach and author, returns to break down the four levels of peace a woman brings to a healthy partnership… and why executive partnership is the secret weapon for thriving marriages.
This half tackles tough questions on how to spot manipulators, narcissists, and avoidant partners, dissecting the behavioral clues before you get emotionally invested. Lisa and Adam also face controversial truths around infidelity, parenthood, and why major life changes like having a baby push couples to their breaking point. Expect candid insights, role-playing real scenarios, and practical scripts to use in your own relationship. Adam’s methodology empowers women to ask for what they need, set boundaries, and choose partners who offer mutual respect and trust without compromise.
SHOWNOTES
Why Do Men Cheat After Pregnancy?
Building Agreements to Prevent Loneliness & Infidelity
Hard Truths About Male Psychology & Intimacy
The Need for Touch: Why Men Are Starved for Affection
Do Emotional Affairs Hurt Women More? The Real Gender Divide
Why Men’s Sexual Needs Must Be Understood
Communication Styles: Emotional Processing vs. Solutions
Scripts for Explaining Emotional Needs to Men
“I Respect You”—The Most Powerful Words to Say
How Respect Differs from Love & Why Men Need to Hear It
The Cost of Withholding Respect
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"Men Find This IRRESISTIBLE!" 3 Ways to Seduce, Captivate & Leave Him Wanting More | Adam Lane Smith PT 1
Welcome to a powerful edition of Women of Impact with host Lisa Bilyeu, joined by renowned couples therapist and attachment expert, Adam Lane Smith. Adam has spent over fifteen years helping thousands of couples and individuals overcome barriers to deep, meaningful connection… and today, he's here to unravel the hidden truths behind intimacy, sex, and relationship dynamics that most women have never been taught.
In this first half, Adam and Lisa cut through popular misconceptions about intimacy, exploring why men and women seem to speak different emotional languages, especially when it comes to sex and bonding. They dive into the science of attachment, hormones, and brain chemistry, revealing practical strategies for triggering true emotional connection with men… both inside and outside of the bedroom. Whether you’re single, dating, or committed, this episode will challenge the myths holding you back and give you the tools to build trust, safety, and lasting partnership. Tune in for actionable advice, relatable stories, and an honest look at the pitfalls of modern dating.
Show Notes
Why Men and Women Don’t Speak the Same Language in Sex
The Science Behind Sex, Trust, and Emotional Bonding
Three Ways to Create Emotional Bonding During Sex
The Four Levels of Male Safety Every Woman Needs
Four Levels of Peace Women Bring to Relationships
How to Spot Manipulative vs. Avoidant Men
Narcissism, Contempt, and Behavioral Red Flags
Excessive Need for Control: Avoidant vs. Manipulative Dynamics
Shifting Blame: Insecurity vs. Deliberate Manipulation
Boundaries: Violated Ethics and Core Goals
When Men See You as an Object, Not a Partner
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The Science of Lust: What Makes Love Last (or Crash) | Dr. Tara Swart PT 2 (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. Ladies, brace yourselves for a love revolution you don’t want to miss! Welcome to another episode of Women of Impact, where I’m taking the dive into the exhilarating world of love, lust, and resilience with our special guest, Tara Swart, a neuroscience whizz and resilience guru.
In today’s conversation, we'll decode the enigma of romantic relationships, helping you understand the intricacies of attraction and desire. Tara's expert insights will guide you on when it's time to walk away and how to boost your mental resilience to master the dating game while retaining your sanity.
And…if you’ve ever pondered over the differences in how men and women bond in the bedroom, we’ve got you covered homie! Tara is spilling all the love secrets with the perfect 'oxytocin mix' that ignites passion and desire, and she’s giving practical, science-backed advice to supercharge your love life.
Here's one that surprised me: Did you know that couples who stress together might actually stick together? However, we're not talking about toxic cycles just yet. Instead, Tara exposes the addictive love cycle, where fiery arguments transform into passionate reunions. This episode is all about empowering you to break free from these emotional roller coasters once and for all.
Tune in to this 1st part of this epic conversation with Tara Swart for an enlightening, playful, yet profound discussion that could reshape how you approach your love life. Your journey towards stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships starts here! Make sure you don’t miss part 2 of this spicy conversation.
Original air date: 11-2-2023
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The Science of Lust: What Makes Love Last (or Crash) | Dr. Tara Swart PT 1 (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. Ladies, brace yourselves for a love revolution you don’t want to miss! Welcome to another episode of Women of Impact, where I’m taking the dive into the exhilarating world of love, lust, and resilience with our special guest, Tara Swart, a neuroscience whizz and resilience guru.
In today’s conversation, we'll decode the enigma of romantic relationships, helping you understand the intricacies of attraction and desire. Tara's expert insights will guide you on when it's time to walk away and how to boost your mental resilience to master the dating game while retaining your sanity.
And…if you’ve ever pondered over the differences in how men and women bond in the bedroom, we’ve got you covered homie! Tara is spilling all the love secrets with the perfect 'oxytocin mix' that ignites passion and desire, and she’s giving practical, science-backed advice to supercharge your love life.
Here's one that surprised me: Did you know that couples who stress together might actually stick together? However, we're not talking about toxic cycles just yet. Instead, Tara exposes the addictive love cycle, where fiery arguments transform into passionate reunions. This episode is all about empowering you to break free from these emotional roller coasters once and for all.
Tune in to this 1st part of this epic conversation with Tara Swart for an enlightening, playful, yet profound discussion that could reshape how you approach your love life. Your journey towards stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships starts here! Make sure you don’t miss part 2 of this spicy conversation.
Original air date: 11-1-2023
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73% of Women Are Destroying Their Metabolism—Here’s How to Break Free From Diet Culture For Good | Gabrielle Lyon (Fan Fav)
This is a Fan Fav episode. It’s becoming more and more evident there are a host of things women are dealing with that not only destroy our bodies, but they also destroy our confidence and ability to show up and go as hard as we want.
Dr. Gabrielle Lyons, a functional medicine physician and muscle-centric advocate for metabolic health and longevity, shares startling data that 73% of people are either overweight or obese. If you’re a woman dealing with PCOS, hormonal imbalances, and gut issues, chances are you are absolutely struggling with your weight.
This episode is for you today if you’ve been fixated and obsessing over cutting calories, doing more cardio, and resorting to starving during the day only to binge eat at night. Let's be honest, there’s a bunch of crap being marketed to us and deciphering reliable information from BS myths and none-evidence-based beliefs shared from ulterior motives and political agendas is making a lot of people feel hopeless, overwhelmed and confused. Let’s end that crap right here.
Key areas of re-information we’re focusing on in this episode include:
Cycles of crash dieting are absolutely destroying your health
Move away from the fat phobic model to an empowering muscle centric model
Health at any size is devastating people and is not that same as loving yourself
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Original air date: 3-13-23
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