Women of Impact

Welcome back to this fascinating episode of Women of Impact with former CIA spy, Andrew Bustamante, where we're talking all about what to do to spot the liar from a mile away and crack their con before they even have a chance to gain your trust and use it to manipulate you!

And we're going even deeper into the tools and tactics that secret undercover agents use so that you can protect yourself from manipulators, abusers, con men, narcissists, and even cult leaders and figure out whether someone is actually being genuine or actually fabricating a lie to manipulate and abuse your trust.

Don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Andrew Bustamante.

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What up guys, it's Lisa Bilyeu here, and I'm going to tell you something that's an absolute frickin’ fact that no one wants to believe AND is the reason we find ourselves getting tricked, used, manipulated, cheated on, and gaslit…

EVERYONE LIES!

From small innocent white lies to really freaking hurtful, huge lies that are like a bombshell that ends up destroying your life, your relationship, and your confidence.

Now the sooner we can just accept the fact that everyone lies, the sooner you can start to figure out how to spot the lies, uncover the truth, and take your power back so you won’t be manipulated ever again.

And so here to help us uncover the web of lies and reveal the truth is former CIA spy and agent, Andrew Bustamante!!

Andrew has literally been professionally trained in how to gain people's trust very quickly and how to use that trust to get information, and today he's going to be teaching us:
- the three parts that go into building trust
- what a con man, serial killer, or cult leader will do to gain your trust quickly
- how to take control back and ask the right questions to test and reveal the true intentions behind someone’s actions
- how famous people like P Diddy, Bill Cosby, and R Kelly were able to lie and manipulate and abuse people to the EXTREME

This episode is a masterclass on how to become a human lie detector and crack the con!!!

By the end of this episode, your tool belt will be full of the tools that top agents in the CIA use to crack the cons, expose the lies, and manipulate the manipulator so you can protect your own damn self-confidence, reveal the truth behind anyone's actions, and then take your power back in any situation!!

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Ladies and gentlemen, get ready to explore the taboo world of sex, shame, and mental health with our very special guest, Emily Morse. As a sex and relationship expert, Emily has seen it all and is here to spill the tea on how shame can hold you back from experiencing true pleasure.
In this episode, we're diving deep into the three types of shame that can wreak havoc on your sex life: rejection shame, exposure shame, and self-blame. Emily shares her insights on how these shame patterns can be traced back to childhood experiences and societal messages that leave us feeling disconnected from our own bodies and desires.

But it's not all doom and gloom - Emily also shares her top tips for overcoming shame and embracing your sexuality. From challenging limiting beliefs to practicing self-love and communication with your partner, she's got the tools you need to take your pleasure to the next level.

And let's not forget about the power of orgasms! Emily dishes on how getting busy can actually boost your mental health by reducing stress and increasing feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin. Plus, she shares some juicy stats on just how many women have experienced sexual trauma and how it can impact their ability to let loose in the bedroom.

But don't worry, this episode isn't just a downer - Emily is all about empowering women to prioritize their pleasure and aim for at least 25% fun in their daily lives. She even gives a shout-out to the joys of solo play and how it can help you get in touch with your own body and desires.

So if you're ready to break free from shame and embrace your inner sex goddess, grab a glass of wine, settle in, and get ready to learn from the one and only Emily Morse. It's time to get shameless and prioritize your pleasure like never before!

SHOWNOTES
00:00 Identifying the pleasure thieves: stress, anxiety, worry.
04:12 Stress during sex may indicate underlying issues.
07:52 Addressing physical and mental shame for confidence.
11:11 Challenging limiting beliefs, embracing therapy for growth.
16:18 Repressed sexuality stems from unsafe environments.
18:04 Shame about masturbation can hinder sexual exploration.
21:29 Untreated trauma worsens over time, seek help.
22:56 Pleasure is essential for productivity and presence.
28:12 Hidden side effects of medication impact sex life.
29:27 Believe in your deserving of a healthy sex life.

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You know those moments you can’t shake, when everything looks perfect, but deep down you feel a chill that says, “something is wrong”?
What if the real danger isn’t what you see, but what you don’t see: The hidden drives, the shadows, that play out behind closed doors?
In today’s episode, I sit down with philosophy researcher and shadow work expert Previn Karian to expose the psychology of why women end up in cycles of pain, manipulation, and even abuse, and how recognizing the “shadow” in ourselves and our partners is the first step to walking away with dignity and power.
This one is raw, honest, and truth-telling. We dig into uncomfortable places, but it might be the perspective shift that sets you free.
Here’s exactly what we dive into:
The “male shadow”: How to recognize when it’s not your job to “fix” him (and what to do instead).
Why super successful, charming men aren’t always safe (the “bigger the light, the bigger the shadow”)
The difference between sadism and masochism: How these hidden drives play out in both men and women
How women’s own shadow makes us vulnerable to repeat cycles of abuse

Chapters
Don’t Get Seduced by “Light”: Why Success Isn’t Safety
How Sadistic Drives Show Up: From Microaggressions to Violence
The Giselle Pellico Case: Shadows Hiding in Plain Sight
The Masochistic Man: Nice Guys, People Pleasing, and Hidden Rage
Spotting the Difference: Explosive Rage vs. Quiet Depression
Why Men Lack the Language for Their Pain
The Core Shadow Wound of Women, And How We Overcome
Can Women Be Sadistic Too? Rewriting the Narrative
The Masculinity Crisis: Feminism, Power, and the Red Pill Backlash
The #1 Thing To Do When You See His Shadow
Why You Can’t Rescue a Man (and What Real Support Looks Like)

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Welcome back to part 2 of this incredibly revealing and unnerving conversation with top defense attorney Karen Conti talking all about how dangerous people like narcissists, conmen, and even serial killers will deceive and manipulate you to get what they want.

And we’re diving even deeper into breaking down allllll the plays master manipulators like P Diddy, Jeffery Epstein, and John Wayne Gacy use to trick you, lie to you, and hurt you AND how YOU can protect yourself from the dangerous people that are hiding in plain sight and looking for nice, unsuspecting, and compassionate women like you and me to take advantage of!

So don’t miss this final part with Karen Conti.

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