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Welcome to another empowering episode of Women of Impact. Today, I am thrilled to dive into a topic that's often shrouded in silence but is foundational to our relationships and individual confidence: sexuality. Joining us is the incredible Jaiya, a renowned sexologist who has transformed the conversation around intimacy with her groundbreaking work on sexual blueprints. Together, we'll unravel the complexities of sexual compatibility, tackle the discomfort of sexless relationships, and break free from the chains of shame and embarrassment that too often confine our sexual experiences.

Lisa Bilyeu, with her characteristic openness and depth, shares insights from her own marriage, highlighting the lifesaving importance of understanding and speaking your partner's erotic language. We'll explore the different types of sexual blueprints—energetic, sensual, sexual, and kinky—and discuss how to communicate them effectively, ensuring that you and your partner are truly connected in the most intimate of ways. So, prepare to be empowered and maybe even a bit enlightened, as we discuss how to transform your sexual blueprint into a source of strength and pleasure with the wise guidance of Jaiya.

SHOW NOTES

00:00 Waiting for a chat, promises confidence boost.

04:46 Avoiding "bed death" through communication and intimacy.

08:44 Book "Jaya" helped me communicate sexual needs.

11:22 Effective communication is key to overcoming awkwardness.

15:28 Kindness, open heart, self-work, women's disservice.

16:42 Women often don't express their needs in bed.

21:24 Creating a romantic and sensual atmosphere matters.

26:02 Healing, learning, and expanding in relationships.

27:38 Book empowers confidence and communication in intimacy.

30:07 Thanks for being you, paving the way.

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If you thought part one was raw, wait until you see where this conversation goes next. Sexologist Coral Osborne is back: No holding back, no scripts, just actual tools for healing, exploring, and redefining intimacy. From sex addiction myths to the epidemic of loneliness, and even the wild world of AI relationships, Coral exposes the hidden psychology, cultural baggage, and unmet needs that shape everything from fantasies to choosing your partner.

This is where you discover the secrets for breaking free from shame and finally creating the relationship you want. 

Women’s sexuality as power: the data, the disparity, and weaponization explained

Kinkifying everything: how women and men use sex to negotiate, connect, and gain leverage

RBDSMA: The step-by-step guide every woman should teach her daughter before sex

Confidence, self-worth, and why “being desired” has NOTHING to do with your age or body type

Eight types of intimacy, the “situationship” epidemic, and how we find real connection

Magnetic chemistry, toxic attraction, and why you keep choosing the wrong love

The negative aphrodisiac: how pain, shame, fear, and anxiety shape sexual pleasure

Healing dissociation, surrender, and Coral Osborne's radical journey to self-love (featuring a wild DMT story!)

The rise of AI boyfriends, digital intimacy, and why some women might prefer bots

What happens when a woman hires a male sex worker?

Receiving, giving, vulnerability, and the “female thing” no one talks about

Healing in relationship, building trust, and why your “paradoxical” traits are your superpower

The one thing every woman needs to know about men: complexity, truth, and radical acceptance

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Let’s get real: Have you ever wondered why men step out, even when they claim they love their partners? Or struggled to understand the weird paradoxes men carry about sex and love, and why communication just keeps missing the mark?

 Today, I am sitting down with Coral Osborne—certified sexologist, former high-end sex worker, and absolute powerhouse when it comes to pulling back the curtain on the things men never tell their wives, unraveling the psychology of men, sex, and connection.

If you’ve ever felt confused about how intimacy actually works, this episode is your new playbook for building real connection and exploring sexual truth!

Why Men See Sex Workers for What They Can’t Get at Home

Why Couples Therapy Doesn’t Fix Sex Issues

Men in love who still cheat: the “why” behind their actions

Unpacking the Madonna/Whore complex: How childhood wounds shape adult sex and intimacy

Connection, pleasure, and kink: the three pillars of great sex

Authenticity over performance: Why turning yourself on matters more

Breaking down the psychology of fantasies, attachment styles, and the shadow self

Differences in men’s and women’s fantasies and erotic blueprints

YES/NO/MAYBE lists, sexual types, and designing your sex life together

Men’s most common unspoken fantasy: dominance, sadomasochism, and the dark side of unmet anger

Why dominance and submission show up in ways that surprise both men and women

Threesomes, boundaries, and the symbolism behind group sex

 Sex addiction: why it’s a myth, what’s really behind infidelity, and the power of truth-telling outside the bedroom

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Welcome back to part 2 of this DEEP convo with my total badass homie that divorced in her 40s so she could live her life on HER terms – Patrice Washington!

And we just keep digging into the nitty gritty of how Patrice went from staying in a marriage that wasn’t serving her, to having the bravery, courage and confidence to speak up, do the work, and change her situation.  

We also talk about: 

- The top reasons women stay in unhappy relationships & how to reframe them, detach from previous versions of yourself, and actually step into WHO YOU are meant to be

- Her AMAZING mantra & reminder about love that we ALL need to hear on repeat

- How to approach dating so you don’t make the same mistakes in choosing a partner again 

- And much more!!

Don't miss out on the final part of this amazinggggg conversation with Patrice Washington!! 

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Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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Hey guys, it’s Lisa Bilyeu and I’m so frikin’ excited about today’s episode of Women of Impact with one of my close homies! 

If you feel like you have been holding onto a dream, trying so damn hard to make it happen, but wondering if it might be time to dream a new dream – this episode is for you!! 

My girl Patrice Washington is BACK, and while she’s most known as “America’s Money Maven” and an absolute QUEEN when it comes to finances and money confidence, A LOT has changed since the last time she was on the show! 

We get into alllllll the details in the episode, but the short version is that after 19 years with her husband, she recognized her marriage wasn’t serving her anymore and decided to divorce him. 

Now divorced, dating, and in her 40s, Patrice is happier than ever because she made a different decision and did the work to pivot her life! 

As a result, she got her voice back, is living life on HER terms, and even has NEW vows that she keeps to HERSELF!!

And in this episode, we are breaking down EXACTLY HOW she went from unhappy and romanticizing reality to radical honesty and doing the work to actually make a change to her situation!!!

We also talk about:

- The 5 beliefs that gave Patrice her voice back & how she PRACTICED speaking up for herself before she had the strength to do it in her marriage  

- How holding onto your identity can keep you trapped in your situation & how to reframe those beliefs that are keeping you stuck

- Why asking yourself the hard questions is SO important, but why ACTING in accordance to your answers is EVEN MORE important

So guys, consider this your alarm clock to frikin’ WAKE UP, STOP submitting to the circumstances of your life, and DO THE WORK to change your situation and find happiness again. 

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