Women of Impact

You know those relationships where you fall hard, fast… and then realize way too late just how much you’ve been played? The charm is electric, your heart is pounding, but there’s this nagging voice inside saying, “Something isn’t adding up…”

In this episode, I’m sitting down with Harvard professor, happiness expert, and bestselling author Dr. Arthur Brooks to expose the Dark Triad: the three personality traits that make someone irresistible, manipulative, and ultimately dangerous. If you’ve ever been burned by a narcissist, felt totally confused about what’s real, or wondered how the hell to stop the cycle, homie, this is your episode.

Here’s exactly what we dive into:


The 5 early-warning traits all manipulative partners share… and how to spot them before it’s too late


The “DARVO” technique: Why leaving a toxic relationship can actually be the most dangerous phase, and how to outsmart abusers trying to punish you for leaving


Practical tests, questions, and real-world tools to spot the Dark Triad… and the “light triad” you genuinely WANT in a partner

SHOWNOTES

Why Women Fall for Dangerous Men (And How They Spot Their Next Victim)

Fake Signals: How Dark Triads Make Themselves Irresistible

The Hidden Danger of Leaving: DARVO, Revenge, and Escalating Punishment

The Dark Triad Test: How to Spot Manipulation on the First Date

From Biology to Meaning: How to Break Patterns & Find Real Love

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If you have ever felt lost and hopeless in your life, or full of regret, guilt, and shame around choices you have made, listen up homie because your past DOES NOT have to dictate your future and you can do anything you set your mind to!!  

And on today’s episode of Women of Impact, I’m so honored to be joined by the show-stopping Gammy Norris!! 

She’s the badass mom of Jada Pinkett Smith, host of Red Table Talk, and has been incredibly open and transparent about her past struggles with teen pregnancy, addiction, and abuse and how she evolved into the INCREDIBLE woman she is today. 

Gammy is now 70 years old, has been clean for 30 YEARS, and is sharing her insights and struggles she’s had on her journey so you can change your life for the better, and FOR GOOD! 

In this episode, we’re digging into:

- How Gammy actually took back control of her life, piece by piece, and how you can too 

- Why it’s so important to identify the LIES you are telling yourself that are leaving blinders up in your life 

- How to forgive yourself for mistakes in the past & let go of the shame so you can use them to fuel your growth 

- Why it’s so frikin’ important to not let the idea that you “can’t” STOP you from even trying  

- How to keep yourself from spiraling into regrets so you can let go & actually CHANGE 

Now guys, anyone CAN change, but you have to make DIFFERENT choices, change your habits, surround yourself with positive energy, and do the internal work to let go of the shame, guilt and regrets that you have and commit to showing up every day to be better NOW. 

You can’t change the past, but you can move forward and make better choices and live a life that is FOR YOU!!

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Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement
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If you have ever felt lost and hopeless in your life, or full of regret, guilt, and shame around choices you have made, listen up homie because your past DOES NOT have to dictate your future and you can do anything you set your mind to!!  

And on today’s episode of Women of Impact, I’m so honored to be joined by the show-stopping Gammy Norris!! 

She’s the badass mom of Jada Pinkett Smith, host of Red Table Talk, and has been incredibly open and transparent about her past struggles with teen pregnancy, addiction, and abuse and how she evolved into the INCREDIBLE woman she is today. 

Gammy is now 70 years old, has been clean for 30 YEARS, and is sharing her insights and struggles she’s had on her journey so you can change your life for the better, and FOR GOOD! 

In this episode, we’re digging into:

- How Gammy actually took back control of her life, piece by piece, and how you can too 

- Why it’s so important to identify the LIES you are telling yourself that are leaving blinders up in your life 

- How to forgive yourself for mistakes in the past & let go of the shame so you can use them to fuel your growth 

- Why it’s so frikin’ important to not let the idea that you “can’t” STOP you from even trying  

- How to keep yourself from spiraling into regrets so you can let go & actually CHANGE 

Now guys, anyone CAN change, but you have to make DIFFERENT choices, change your habits, surround yourself with positive energy, and do the internal work to let go of the shame, guilt and regrets that you have and commit to showing up every day to be better NOW. 

You can’t change the past, but you can move forward and make better choices and live a life that is FOR YOU!!

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From men secretly drugging their wives (yep, I said it) to AI catfish scams, to women getting pushed into “open relationships” they never agreed to… this week we’re blowing the lid off ALL the lies, traps, and trends. Christina and I are breaking it all down: how to spot manipulation before it wrecks your world, why shame keeps women silent, and exactly what to do when you’re being gaslit by the person you love most.

SHOWNOTES

Husband’s Shameful Secrets EXPOSEDBlindsided By Betrayal: Should You Leave, Stay, or Work It Out?

AI Scams & Deepfakes: The New Era of Manipulation

Forced Open Relationships & “Monopoly” Dynamics

When Secrets Become DEADLY: The Epidemic of Drugging Wives

Practical Tools: How To Know If You’ve Been Drugged

The Dirty Tactics Manipulators Use (And How to Beat Them)

Legit Safety Tips (Even From Serial Killers, Y’all)

The Power of Women Lifting Women

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If you’ve ever handed your heart (or your secrets) to the WRONG person because you thought you were “bonding”… this is the wake-up call you need. In PART 2 with former Russian spy Aliia Roza, we push past the mind games and get radically honest about what REALLY keeps you safe… from trauma, from manipulators, from the ugliest corners of the world.

SHOWNOTES

- Strategies to spot red flags and NEVER become a “project” for a narcissist or predator

- How trafficking setups REALLY happen: model scouts, “exclusive” jobs, and the missing questions that save lives

- What’s REAL and what’s a setup: Epstein, Ghislaine, the “friend” ruse, and why women trust other women

- The ultimate defense: boundaries, testing, and what to do when you feel rushed or pressured

- The ROOT of immunity to manipulation & why unshakable confidence starts with programming your own brain

- Full-body self-love rituals: mirror, music, touch, and orgasmic affirmation for invincible confidence

- Pheromones, energy signatures, and the subconscious reason you command a room

- Why cutting out toxic people is essential to bulletproofing your boundaries

- The 5 qualities of a (dangerous) woman, a spy, and a survivor

- Anchoring your wins, stacking your power, and techniques for peak-state public speaking and negotiation

- Stepping into visibility, overcoming fear, and making your story your safe house

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