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From socks-and-slides footwear to mysteriously disappearing spoons and phone chargers, teens and tweens can really rack up the infractions. In this episode, Amy and Margaret break down the baffling behaviors that define life with older kids—tween and teen “crimes"—as reported by parents in the What Fresh Hell community.

Paradoxical and criminal behavior further includes having “nothing to wear” despite a full closet, hoarding personal money while freely spending that of your parents, and needing an immediate text response while ignoring all incoming messages.

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

Our episode "Teaching Kids About Money"

An embarrassed teen at school pickup

The speakers Margaret purchased for her teens' rooms

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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When we have a kid who just doesn't seem to fit in—or who is a loner, if a fairly content one—it can be hard for parents. But putting our own anxiety about it aside, and getting clear on the lagging skills and social cues that may not quite be in place, is the best way to help kids get on a better path. This episode is full of specific and useful advice!

Amy and Margaret discuss:

all the reasons kids can have trouble making (and keeping) friends

five "unwritten social rules" that some kids take longer to comprehend

how figuring out the specific issues at play can lead to the most useful solutions

This episode was originally released on May 29, 2024.

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

Jamie Howard, et. al for Child Mind Institute: ⁠Kids Who Need a Little Help to Make Friends⁠

The Sue Larkey podcast: ⁠Promoting Social Understanding – Social Scripts⁠

Gwen Dewar for Parenting Science: ⁠How to help kids make friends: 12 evidence-based tips⁠

Christine Comizio for U.S. News Health: ⁠Understanding Kids' Friendship Struggles: Common Causes and Solutions⁠

Lexi Walters Wright for Understood.org: ⁠5 “unwritten” social rules that some kids miss⁠

Andrew M.I. Lee for Understood.org: ⁠Why some kids have trouble making friends⁠

ADHD Dude: ⁠"How to Help Your ADHD Child Keep Friends"⁠

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Why does winter affect our mood—and why are teens especially vulnerable? Amy talks with Dr. Greg Hammer, author of the book A MINDFUL TEEN, about the science behind the winter blues, teen mental health, and how simple mindfulness practices can help families feel better.

Dr. Hammer explains how reduced sunlight, disrupted sleep, less physical activity, and holiday stress all contribute to seasonal mood changes—and why teens, who are already sleep-deprived and under pressure, can struggle even more during the winter months. The conversation explores the difference between everyday winter blues and Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), and when parents should consider professional support.

Amy and Dr. Hammer also discuss the definition of "mindfulness" and the GAIN method—Dr. Hammer's practical, accessible framework built around Gratitude, Acceptance, Intention, and Non-Judgment. Dr. Hammer shares how mindfulness can be practiced in as little as three minutes a day, why self-judgment fuels stress and burnout, and how parents can model emotional regulation without lecturing their teens.

Here's where you can find Dr. Hammer:

www.greghammermd.com

www.amindfulteen.com

Buy A MINDFUL TEEN: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9798881806118

@greghammermd on IG

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Why does deciding what’s for dinner every night feel way harder than making major decisions at work? Here's why decision-making can feel so overwhelming—and what actually helps.

You'll learn the psychology behind choice overload, decision fatigue, and regret aversion, and how too many options, depleted mental energy, and fear of future regret can lead to avoidance, default choices, or endless second-guessing.

Amy and Margaret share practical tools for simplifying decisions, including narrowing options, offloading choices, and applying frameworks like the Eisenhower Matrix.

This episode offers reassurance that decision stress is normal—and actionable ways to reduce it, save your cognitive energy for what matters most, and move forward with more confidence and less regret.

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:


Science of People: “Choice Paralysis: 8 Techniques to Make Better Decisions”


Marlynn Wei, M.D., J.D. for Psychology Today: “How High Performers Overcome Decision Fatigue”


The Decision Lab: “Regret Aversion”


The Decision Lab: “Choice Overload Bias”


Alexander Chernev, Ulf Böckenholt & Joseph Goodman for Journal of Consumer Psychology: "Choice overload: A conceptual review and meta‐analysis"


Huiqiao Jia, Chiuhsiang Joe Lin & Eric Min-yang Wang for Scientific Reports: “Effects of Mental Fatigue on Risk Preference and Feedback Processing in Risk Decision-Making”

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Most of us hear “bullying” and picture a sand-kicking, lunch-money-stealing menace. But today’s bullying can take other forms. Research by Dr. Charisse Nixon shows that about 7% of kids report experiencing physical aggression once a week— but that HALF of kids report experiencing relational aggression at least once a month. 

On the other hand, as bullying expert Signe Whitson explains, some things get termed “bullying” that are more correctly described as mean or rude. Knowing the difference as parents will help our children navigate these waters more effectively. 

In this episode we discuss how to help our children understand what bullying is, plus how to know if our kids are being bullied themselves— since it’s the kids who are truly frightened and struggling who are often the most likely not to tell us. 

We also discuss whether, how much, and in what ways parents should intervene— somewhere in the middle ground between “so find new friends!” and beating the bully up yourself. (Spoiler alert: don’t do either of those things.) 

This episode was originally released on June 12, 2024.

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in this episode:

Katie Hurley for Washington Post On Parenting: ⁠"What does childhood anxiety look like? Probably not what you think."⁠

Katie Hurley for PBS Kids: ⁠What to Do If Your Child Is Being Bullied⁠

Sherri Gordon for Very Well Family: ⁠7 Tips for Helping Kids Deal With Being Ostracized⁠

Sumathi Reddy for WSJ: ⁠Little Children and Already Acting Mean⁠

Signe Whitson for Huffington Post: ⁠Rude Vs. Mean Vs. Bullying: Defining The Differences⁠

Louis Sachar: ⁠There's a Boy in the Girls' Bathroom⁠ 

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