Anger Management

• 55 - What Anger Really Is (and Why It Controls You)

  For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.What is anger, really? In this thought-provoking episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs joins Jake and Sarah to explore the emotion beneath the outbursts. Together, they unpack what anger truly is, why it takes over so fast and how understanding it can unlock the first step to real change.If you’ve ever felt like your anger controls you, or wondered if it has to, this episode will change the way you think.Key Takeaways:-Anger isn’t your actions, it’s the emotion underneath. Understanding that difference is the key to breaking the anger cycle.-Your thoughts and perceptions, not just the events themselves, are what trigger anger.-Recognising early warning signs of anger and using tools like deep breathing can help you interrupt angry reactions in real time.-Techniques like cognitive restructuring help shift how you interpret situations, reducing emotional intensity.Managing anger isn’t about suppressing it. It’s about learning to channel it in constructive, respectful ways.Links referenced in this episode:angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger managementangersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Breaking The Anger Cycleangersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System

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• 54 - How to Stop Fighting and Start Connecting

  For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Every relationship has conflict. But it’s how you handle that conflict that determines whether it brings you closer or drives you apart. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares three powerful relationship tools that can help you stay calm in the heat of the moment, understand your partner more deeply and build a connection that lasts. If small issues often turn into big fights, this episode is for you.Key Takeaways:-Conflict is natural, but disconnection doesn’t have to be. Anger expert Alastair Duhs explains how to transform arguments into opportunities for growth.-Mastering the art of pausing when anger flares up can be the first step to stopping destructive cycles before they start.-Shifting your mindset from “winning” the argument to “understanding” your partner builds trust and emotional safety.-Regular positive connection, what Dr. John Gottman calls the “Magic Six Hours”, can make your relationship more resilient to stress and conflict.-Emotional safety is built through small, consistent moments of appreciation, affection and real listening.Links referenced in this episode:angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger managementangersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Breaking The Anger Cycleangersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System

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• 53 - The Day I Saw Fear in My Daughter’s Eyes - Cameron's Story

  For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.What happens when the people you love start to fear your reactions, even if you never raise your voice or hand? In this moving episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs sits down with Cameron, a husband and father whose journey into anger management began the night he saw fear in his daughter's eyes. What follows is a powerful story of self-awareness, humility and real transformation.Key Takeaways:-Emotional outbursts, no matter how rare, can deeply impact your loved ones, especially children.-Anger management isn’t just for those who “lose control”. It’s for anyone who reacts in ways they later regret.-Awareness of early warning signs of anger is a crucial step in changing reactive behavior.-Small moments of calm, empathy and listening can start rebuilding trust in strained relationships.-Change is hard but possible. Cameron likens his transformation to getting sober: difficult at first, but freeing.-Emotional abuse doesn't require physical violence. Just the presence of fear, instability or recurring tension.Links referenced in this episode:angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger managementangersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Control Your Anger in 7 Daysangersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System

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• 52 - When Anger Hurts the People You Love Most

  For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.When anger becomes a pattern, it doesn’t just hurt you — it affects the people you love the most. In this honest and deeply moving episode of The Anger Management Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores the emotional cost of uncontrolled anger in families, relationships, and everyday life. With stories of real people who reached their breaking point and chose to change, this episode is both a wake-up call and a roadmap to healing.Key Takeaways:-Anger leaves lasting echoes: Outbursts may pass, but their emotional impact — fear, distance, tension — can linger in your home and relationships.-Uncontrolled anger creates fear: Loved ones may start walking on eggshells, living in quiet anxiety, never knowing when the next explosion will come.-Anger often masks deeper emotions: Beneath the rage is often shame, fear, or pain that needs to be understood, not hidden.-These are learned patterns — not who you are: Anger is not your identity, and with support and practice, it can be unlearned and replaced.-The ‘pause and pivot’ method works: A brief pause before reacting creates space for empathy, honest communication and healing.-Real stories show real change: Listeners like Nathan and Peter transformed their lives by learning to recognise the impact of their anger — and choosing a different path.Links referenced in this episode:angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger managementangersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Breaking The Anger Cycleangersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System

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• 51 - The Real Reason You Get Angry

  For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.When anger flares up, it can feel like something other people cause — a disrespectful comment, a traffic jam, a partner’s forgetfulness. But what if the real reason you get angry isn’t out there, but within you? In this revealing episode of The Anger Management Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs, with help from AI co-hosts Jake and Sarah, unpacks a powerful truth: your thoughts create your anger — and that means you can change it. If you're ready to reclaim your calm and control your reactions, this episode shows you how.Key Takeaways:-Anger begins with your thoughts: It’s not the event, but how you interpret it — your story about what’s happening — that creates anger.-Your reactions aren’t set in stone: Even deeply ingrained patterns of anger can be rewired through conscious awareness and consistent practice.-The power lies in the pause: Noticing the thought before reacting gives you the chance to choose a calmer, more helpful response.-Blame is easy — change is transformational: Shifting from “they made me angry” to “I created this feeling” is the first step toward real emotional freedom.-You’re not powerless: You can train your mind to respond differently, build stronger relationships, and feel more in control of your emotions.-Small steps lead to big change: Catch one thought, question one reaction, practice one pause — and you’re already breaking the cycle.Links referenced in this episode:angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger managementangersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Breaking The Anger Cycleangersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System

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