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🏒 Your child may know what happened during a shift—but do they understand why it happened?
Goals, assists, wins, and losses are easy to see. But the small decisions that build hockey IQ, earn a coach’s trust, and help a player advance rarely appear on the score sheet.
In this episode of Our Kids Play Hockey, Lee Elias, Mike Bonelli, and Christie Casciano-Burns welcome Kevin Clark of Cascade Hockey, a former professional player whose 16-year career included time in the Vancouver Canucks and Winnipeg Jets organizations, along with multiple opportunities to represent Team Canada.
Kevin explains how players can learn to view the game through a professional lens—and why parents and coaches must stop judging every decision solely by its result.
Sometimes a player makes the correct decision and gets a bad outcome. Other times, a poor decision accidentally leads to a goal. The key to long-term development is learning to recognize the difference.
🎧 In this conversation, you’ll hear:
🧠 Why decision quality matters more than the immediate result
🏒 How players become trusted beyond goals and assists
🔄 Why practices should recreate the chaos and pressure of real games
🎯 How coaches can train high-frequency situations instead of relying on predetermined patterns
👀 What parents should watch for during their child’s shifts
📈 Why progress should be measured over months—not game by game
💬 How intentional feedback gives players confidence, identity, and purpose
🎥 Why video can help players recognize growth and understand their habits
😬 Why feeling uncomfortable can be a sign that real learning is taking place
❤️ How parents can cultivate a child’s drive without trying to manufacture it
Kevin also shares why young athletes need different coaching voices, how coaches can create safer learning environments, and why the best development programs begin every session with a clear purpose.
This episode is an important reminder that a player’s value cannot always be measured by production. Reliability, awareness, defensive responsibility, communication, timing, and the ability to create time and space can be just as valuable as scoring.
Most importantly, every player deserves to understand how they contribute—and to feel like they matter.
Listen now, share the episode with a hockey parent or coach, and begin looking beyond the box score.
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📖 Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: Beyond the Score Sheet: How Young Hockey Players Become Smarter, More Trusted Teammates
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🏒 What does it look like when women athletes are not simply recognized—but truly celebrated?
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Olympic gold medalist and Walter Cup champion Hayley Scamurra joins Lee Elias and Mike Bonelli for a behind-the-scenes recap of She Weekend in Las Vegas, an unforgettable celebration organized by Flavor Flav with support from Paris Hilton, MGM, major sponsors, entertainers, and fans of women’s sports.
With no script and no formal rundown, Hayley takes listeners through the experience day by day—from an all-female flight crew and a parade through Las Vegas to athlete gifting suites, concerts at the Sphere, red carpets, celebrity meet-and-greets, and a powerful sense of community among Olympians and Paralympians.
But beneath all the excitement is a much bigger conversation.
Hayley explains why these moments of recognition mean so much to women who have spent years competing, building their sports, and inspiring the next generation—often with fewer resources and far less visibility than their male counterparts.
🎙️ In this episode:
🎉 Hayley’s full She Weekend experience in Las Vegas
🥇 Why celebrations like this are long overdue for women athletes
🤝 How Flavor Flav turned public support into meaningful action
✈️ The thoughtful details that made the weekend special
🎶 Meeting the Backstreet Boys and attending their Sphere concert
🎁 Inside the athlete gifting lounge
🏒 Hayley’s surreal first look at the arena where she will play in Las Vegas
💬 Why women athletes should be allowed to celebrate without judgment
⚖️ The double standard surrounding female athletes as “role models”
🏆 A passionate discussion about hockey’s recognition at the ESPYs
🌟 What increased visibility could mean for the next generation
Hayley also reflects on staying grounded through success, learning to enjoy major victories, and understanding that athletes can be disciplined professionals while still embracing the moments they have earned.
This conversation is fun, honest, thoughtful, and an important reminder that progress is not only about giving women opportunities to compete. It is also about celebrating their achievements with the same enthusiasm, investment, and attention given to other elite athletes.
Listen, share the episode with a hockey family, and join us in continuing to elevate the women’s game.
📖 Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: More Than a Celebration: What She Weekend Meant for Hayley Scamurra and Women’s Sports
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🏒 Feeling nervous before your next hockey tryout? Take a breath—you have already done the work.
In this episode of The Ride to the Rink, Lee and Christie are joined by Gabe Malinski of TeamGenius, a hockey evaluation expert who helps organizations improve tryouts through better technology and evaluation methods.
Gabe reminds young players that tryouts are not the time to become someone different. They are an opportunity to trust their preparation, play the game they love, and show coaches who they are as players and teammates.
The conversation also explores what to do when a drill goes wrong. Instead of allowing one mistake to affect the rest of the skate, Gabe recommends creating a simple reset routine—whether that means brushing snow from your stick, clearing your skates, rolling your shoulders, or taking one deep breath before the next repetition.
🎧 In this episode, young hockey players will learn:
🧠 How to manage nerves before stepping onto the ice
💧 Why sleep, hydration, and proper fuel matter before evaluations
🔄 How to reset mentally after a mistake
🗣️ What questions to ask coaches before and after tryouts
🤝 Why evaluators notice encouragement, effort, and teamwork
💪 How to respond when equipment problems or adversity strike
❤️ Why enjoying the game can help your best hockey shine through
Gabe also shares an important reminder: evaluators understand that players will make mistakes. One bad drill, one fall, or even one difficult tryout does not define who you are—or who you may become later in your hockey journey.
Listen before your next evaluation and remember: skate hard, support the players around you, and trust the work you have already put in.
No matter where you are on your hockey journey, we believe in you. Make sure you believe in yourself, too.
📖 Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: How Young Hockey Players Can Handle Tryouts With Confidence
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🏒 What makes a youth hockey tryout feel fair—and what causes the entire process to break down?
Tryouts can be one of the most emotional parts of the hockey season. Players are nervous, parents are analyzing every drill, coaches are trying to build balanced teams, and organizations are under pressure to make decisions that families can trust.
In this episode of Our Kids Play Hockey, Lee Elias and Christie Casciano Burns are joined by Gabe Malinski of TeamGenius, a platform that helps youth sports organizations improve tryouts, player evaluations, communication, and long-term development.
Gabe explains why many associations make evaluations more complicated than they need to be—and why collecting more scores does not always lead to better decisions. The group discusses how organizations can create clearer evaluation criteria, prepare evaluators more effectively, reduce bias, and provide feedback that helps players improve.
They also explore an important truth: a tryout should not be viewed as one isolated hour. A player’s habits, development, coachability, effort, attitude, and performance throughout the season all contribute to a much more complete picture.
🎯 In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why the purpose of a tryout should remain simple: build appropriate teams
How evaluation criteria should change by age group and association size
Why skating is often the most important skill for younger players
How unclear scoring systems can create major evaluation mistakes
Why evaluators need detailed rubrics—not just a one-to-five scale
How organizations can reduce bias through outside evaluators and objective data
Why hockey IQ, compete level, leadership, and coachability still require human judgment
How honest feedback can turn disappointment into a development plan
What players should do physically and mentally before tryouts
How parents can support their child without increasing the pressure
Why not making the desired team may create a better long-term opportunity
How technology should support coaches rather than make decisions for them
Gabe also shares the remarkable journey of his brother Sam Malinski, who played B-level hockey as a young player, faced setbacks throughout his development, went undrafted, and continued working his way toward the NHL. His story is a powerful reminder that one roster decision does not determine a player’s future.
The biggest takeaway? Tryouts should be part of a larger development process—not the only evaluation a player receives all year.
When organizations communicate clearly, coaches provide meaningful feedback, players prepare consistently, and parents remain supportive, tryouts can become far more productive for everyone involved.
🎧 Listen now, share this episode with another hockey family, and remember: the team your child makes this season does not define the player—or person—they can become.
📖 Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: Youth Hockey Tryouts Should Build Teams—and Help Players Grow
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🧠 What separates a talented hockey player from one a coach trusts in every situation?
Skills may create highlight-reel moments, but hockey IQ influences nearly every second of the game—with or without the puck.
In this episode of Our Girls Play Hockey, Team USA gold medalist and PWHL Walter Cup champion Hayley Scamurra joins Lee Elias for an important conversation about hockey IQ, skill development, anticipation, timing, and learning to see the game before the play unfolds.
Hayley explains why she would choose a player with elite hockey IQ and average skills over one with elite skills and average hockey IQ. She also shares how her understanding of the game helped her adapt to different positions, play with different linemates, thrive on the penalty kill, and become the kind of versatile player coaches can use in almost any situation.
🏒 In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why hockey IQ is more than simply “knowing the game”
The difference between reacting to a play and anticipating it
Why watching complete plays is more valuable than only watching highlights
How timing can be more important than speed around the net
Why disrupting a play can be just as valuable as scoring
How playing other sports can improve spacing, awareness, and decision-making
Why young players should learn to embrace different roles
How coaches can build hockey IQ by asking better questions
What “go hunting” and “go smart” can teach developing players
Why communication is one of the most valuable—and overlooked—hockey skills
Hayley also reflects on her development from a young penalty killer and forechecker to a top-line player, center, Olympian, and dependable utility player. Her story is a reminder that a player’s value is not defined only by goals, assists, or flashy puck skills.
For players: Stay curious, ask questions, watch the entire play, and learn what happens away from the puck.
For coaches and parents: Instead of immediately telling a player what went wrong, ask, “What did you see?” or “What other options were available?”
Those conversations may be where hockey IQ truly begins.
📖 Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: Why Hockey IQ May Be a Young Player’s Most Important Skill
🎧 Listen now and share this episode with a player, parent, or coach who wants to understand the game at a deeper level.
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