Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

What if the reason you struggle with boundaries isn’t weakness—but survival?

In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with boundaries coach Barb Nangle to talk about codependency, trauma, and the moment that forced Barb to completely rethink how she related to herself and everyone around her.

Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) with over 4 million downloads and counting.

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“Boundaries are the antidote to codependency.” — Barb Nangle

Episode Description

Many people believe boundaries are simply about saying no. But according to boundaries coach Barb Nangle, that’s only a small part of the story.

In this powerful first half of a two-part conversation, Barb joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to unpack the deeper roots of codependency, trauma, and people-pleasing, and how those patterns shape our relationships long before we recognize them.

Barb shares the life-changing moment that sent her into recovery: inviting a homeless man into her home in an attempt to help him, only to realize she had completely lost herself trying to rescue someone else.

That experience led her into 12-step recovery programs, including Al-Anon, Codependents Anonymous, and Adult Children of Alcoholics, where she began to understand how childhood trauma and emotional abandonment had shaped her behavior.

Through recovery, Barb discovered something profound: boundaries don’t just protect relationships—they create internal safety, allowing us to show up in the world without constantly abandoning ourselves.

This episode is an honest and deeply relatable conversation about healing, awareness, and what it really takes to break free from lifelong patterns.

Keywords: Barb Nangle, codependency recovery, boundaries, trauma healing, people pleasing, emotional safety, adult children of alcoholics, therapy, relationship boundaries, self-awareness, mental health recovery, trauma patterns, emotional healing

Meet Our Guest — Barb Nangle

Barb Nangle is a boundaries coach, speaker, author, and podcaster who helps professional women stop saying yes when they mean no and build emotionally healthy relationships.

After nearly 40 years of therapy and personal development, Barb entered 12-step recovery at age 52, where she discovered that codependency and childhood trauma had shaped her life far more deeply than she realized. Through recovery, she developed the boundary-building framework that now forms the foundation of her coaching and teaching.

Today, Barb helps women create internal safety, healthier relationships, and stronger personal boundaries through coaching, speaking, and her podcast, Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery.

Connect with Barb:

Website: https://higherpowercc.com/
Podcast: https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/barbnangle/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@higherpowercoaching

Key Takeaways

Codependency often develops from childhood trauma and emotional abandonment.

Boundaries are about understanding what is and isn’t okay for you.

Many people confuse helping others with rescuing them.

Recovery begins when you stop focusing on fixing others and start caring for yourself.

Emotional safety is the foundation of healthy relationships.

 

Actionable Items

Pay attention to moments when you say yes but feel resistance internally.

Ask yourself regularly: “Is this my responsibility or someone else’s?”

Start identifying what feels emotionally safe and unsafe in your relationships.

 

References Mentioned

Al-Anon
Codependents Anonymous (CoDA)
Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA)
Overeaters Anonymous (OA)

Important Chapters

00:00 – Welcome and why boundaries matter

06:00 – Barb’s work and how she teaches boundaries

13:00 – The story of Dan and the turning point in Barb’s life

22:00 – Discovering Al-Anon and codependency

31:00 – Understanding childhood trauma and emotional abandonment

40:00 – How recovery began transforming Barb’s life

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Why do some people crave closeness while others pull away the moment things get too real? In this episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Jack Bohannan to unpack attachment theory, childhood emotional conditioning, and the patterns that quietly shape our adult relationships. The conversation gets real about anxious love, avoidant partners, and how healing attachment wounds can change the way we connect.

Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads — a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health) and 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) with over 3.5 million downloads and counting — continues its mission to spark unfiltered conversations about the human mind.

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“If we weren’t truly seen as kids, we spend adulthood trying to find someone who will finally see us.” — Jack Bohannan

Episode Description

Why do we keep repeating the same relationship patterns—even when we swear we won’t? According to attachment theory, the answer often begins in childhood.

In this episode, Jack Bohannan joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to break down the psychology of attachment styles and how early relationships with caregivers shape how we connect with others as adults. From secure attachment to anxious, avoidant, and disorganized patterns, Jack explains how these emotional blueprints develop and why they often show up in our romantic relationships.

The trio explores the familiar push-and-pull dynamic many couples experience—where one partner seeks closeness while the other pulls away. Jack shares how these patterns are often rooted in childhood experiences where emotional needs were either met, ignored, or inconsistently supported. The result? Adults who may struggle with intimacy, emotional vulnerability, or trust.

But this episode isn’t about blame—it’s about awareness and healing. Jack discusses how attachment styles exist on a spectrum and how people can develop earned secure attachment through therapy, self-reflection, and healthier relationships.

Along the way, the conversation dives into modern relationship dynamics, the impact of social isolation and digital culture, and why community connection matters more than we realize. Jack also shares personal insights into his journey through relationships, coaching, and the work it takes to truly understand himself.

If you’ve ever wondered why relationships can feel like an emotional dance—or why you keep attracting the same type of partner—this episode offers powerful insight into the psychology of connection.

Keywords: Jack Bohannan, attachment theory, attachment styles, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, secure attachment, disorganized attachment, relationships, emotional intimacy, childhood trauma, therapy, mental health, relationship psychology, emotional healing

Meet Our Guest — Jack Bohannan

Jack Bohannan is a somatic coach and relationship educator who helps people understand how attachment patterns shape emotional connection and intimacy. Through coaching and personal development work, Jack guides clients toward healthier relationships by addressing the deeper emotional roots behind their behaviors.

Website:
https://polarityunscripted.com

Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/polarityunscripted

Key Takeaways

Attachment styles are often shaped by early childhood experiences with caregivers.

Many relationship conflicts stem from the anxious–avoidant dynamic, in which one partner pursues, and the other withdraws.

Avoidant behavior is often misunderstood—it can stem from unmet emotional needs early in life.

Healing attachment patterns is possible through self-awareness, therapy, and healthy relationships.

Community and connection outside of romantic partnerships are essential for emotional health.

Actionable Items

Reflect on your own attachment style and how it may influence your relationships.

Practice expressing your emotional needs clearly rather than assuming your partner understands them.

Build supportive community connections outside your romantic relationship.

Important Chapters

00:01:30 – What Attachment Theory Really Means
Jack explains the basics of attachment styles and how they shape adult relationships.

00:10:00 – Avoidant vs. Anxious Relationships
The push-and-pull dynamic is experienced by many couples.

00:16:00 – How Childhood Experiences Shape Emotional Connection
Why unmet emotional needs can show up later in adult relationships.

00:23:00 – COVID, Isolation, and Relationship Pressure
How modern life can intensify attachment dynamics.

00:31:30 – Advice Jack Would Give His Younger Self
The importance of being truly seen and emotionally understood.

00:38:00 – Learning Self-Worth from Within
Jack shares his personal journey of healing and self-discovery.

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What does it take to raise confident, emotionally resilient kids in a world that feels louder, harsher, and more disconnected than ever? In this powerful episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Marine Officer, leadership mentor, and children’s author Olaolu Ogunyemi to talk about insecurity, identity, discipline, and why leadership always starts at home.

Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads — a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health) and 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) with over 4.5 million downloads and counting — continues its mission to normalize unfiltered conversations about mental health, trauma, and emotional survival.

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“You’re good enough as you are.” — Olaolu Ogunyemi

Episode Description

Before he became a Marine Officer, leadership mentor, and award-winning children’s author, Olaolu Ogunyemi was a kid who didn’t feel like he fit in. Growing up as the son of Nigerian immigrants in Louisiana, struggling with insecurity about his name, his appearance, and his identity, Olaolu found himself acting out just to belong.

In this honest and heartfelt conversation, he shares how rebellion turned into resilience — and how those early struggles shaped his mission to help parents raise confident, emotionally strong children.

G-Rex and Dirty Skittles dig into the real stuff: why discipline isn’t about punishment, how insecurity shows up in kids (and adults), the pressure boys feel to hide pain, and why connection at home is the foundation for leadership everywhere else. Olaolu opens up about fatherhood, military life, his son’s health challenges, and the hard lesson of learning you can’t control everything.

This episode is for the parents who want to do better than what they were taught. For the dads who want to lead with empathy. For the moms raising boys to be emotionally aware men. And for anyone who needed to hear, at 12 years old, “You’re already enough.”

Because raising resilient kids doesn’t start with control.
It starts with connection.

Keywords: Olaolu Ogunyemi, emotionally resilient children, confident kids, parenting tips, mental health, fatherhood, emotional intelligence, discipline vs punishment, leadership at home, raising boys, identity development, self-worth, resilience, family connection, positive parenting

Meet Our Guest — Olaolu Ogunyemi

Olaolu Ogunyemi is a Marine Officer, leadership mentor, parenting advocate, and award-winning children’s book author. As the founder of Parent-Child-Connect and author of Crow From the Shadow, Billy Dipper’s Time to Shine, and Horace the Horsefly, he equips parents with practical tools to build connection, confidence, and character in their children. His upcoming book, Lead Last, continues his mission to develop service-driven leaders at home and beyond.

Website: https://parent-child-connect.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/olaolu.ogunyemi
X: https://x.com/Olaolu_Ogunyemi
Pinterest: https://pin.it/3heBVMv
YouTube: https://youtube.com/@olaoluogunyemi?si=zL0_VWAq81g2B5hK
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/olaolu.ogunyemi/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olaolu-ogunyemi-465ba453

Key Takeaways

Discipline should build connection, not fear.

Insecurity in kids often shows up as rebellion.

Boys need emotional permission, not just toughness.

You can’t control everything — and trying to will exhaust you.

Leadership begins in the home, long before it shows up in the workplace.

Actionable Items

Tell your child one thing you genuinely admire about who they are — not what they achieve.

Replace “Why did you do that?” with “Help me understand what was going on for you.”

Schedule 15 minutes this week to enter your child’s world — their game, their hobby, their music. No correcting. Just connecting.

References Mentioned

Parent-Child-Connect: https://parent-child-connect.com/

Important Chapters

00:01:00 – Who is Olaolu Ogunyemi? From insecurity to impact

00:12:00 – Why fitting in nearly derailed his future

00:20:00 – The real meaning of discipline

00:30:00 – Military systems vs emotional intelligence

00:35:00 – Parenting through health scares and letting go of control

00:45:00 – Advice to his 12-year-old self

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What if the anxiety, control, and burnout you’re battling aren’t flaws — but outdated survival strategies from childhood? In this powerful episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Yvonne Trost to unpack subconscious programming, inner child healing, and what it really takes to escape the success trap and finally feel emotionally free.

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Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads — a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health) and 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) with over 2 million downloads and counting — continues its mission to normalize unfiltered conversations about mental health, trauma, and emotional survival.

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“You have a mind, but you are not your mind — and you don’t have to let it slap you around anymore.” — Yvonne Trost

Episode Description

For 25 years, Yvonne Trost thrived in high-pressure corporate leadership roles. On paper, she had the success. The title. The image. The achievement. But underneath it all? She was running on empty.

In this raw and honest conversation, Yvonne shares how her divorce became the wake-up call that forced her to confront the subconscious beliefs driving her perfectionism, control, and constant need to prove her worth. What she discovered changed everything: most of the “shit that goes on in our heads” was programmed before we were 10.

Together, we talk about subconscious reprogramming, hypnotherapy, inner child healing, fear of failure, fear of success, and how anxiety often shows up as protection — not weakness. Yvonne introduces her three-step framework: Realize, Recode, Rewrite — a process designed to help high achievers stop operating from outdated survival scripts and start living from intention and emotional freedom.

If you’ve ever felt trapped in the success trap — chasing achievement while secretly feeling unfulfilled — this episode is your permission slip to upgrade your internal operating system.

Because real success isn’t about the title. It’s about how free you feel inside.

Keywords: Yvonne Trost, inner child healing, subconscious reprogramming, hypnotherapy, anxiety recovery, emotional freedom, burnout recovery, perfectionism, fear of success, fear of failure, corporate burnout, mindset transformation, nervous system regulation, self-worth, high achievers

Meet Our Guest — Yvonne Trost

Yvonne Trost is a Mindset Transformation Expert, speaker, and co-founder of LimitlessYou, a transformational coaching company helping high-achieving professionals break free from subconscious limitations. With 25 years of experience in corporate leadership and business transformation, Yvonne now guides entrepreneurs and leaders through neuroscience-backed subconscious reprogramming, hypnosis, and coaching to create lives rooted in confidence, peace, and authenticity.

Website: https://unlocklimitlessyou.com/why-us/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unlocklimitlessyou/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/unlocklimitlessyou/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UnlockLimitlessYou

Key Takeaways

Most anxiety and control patterns are subconscious survival strategies formed before age 10.

You are not your thoughts — you can retrain your mind.

Depression and burnout are often protective responses, not personal failures.

Compassion + curiosity are more powerful than judgment.

Real freedom starts with healing your inner child.

Actionable Items

Try mirror work: Tell your younger self what you’re proud of, what you’re releasing, and what you’re committing to.

Notice when fear, doubt, judgment, or self-pity show up — pause and ask what your body is trying to protect you from.

Shift from “Why is this happening to me?” to “How is this happening for me?”

References Mentioned

Unlock Limitless You: https://unlocklimitlessyou.com/why-us/
Self-Love Quiz: https://unlocklimitlessyou.com/

Important Chapters

00:02:30 – The “Door to Anywhere” metaphor and breaking small-town limitations

00:07:00 – Why control is your subconscious mind trying to protect you

00:18:30 – Fear of success vs. fear of failure

00:24:00 – The Unfabulous Four: fear, judgment, doubt, and self-pity

00:34:00 – E = MC² redefined: Mindful thinking, compassion, and curiosity

00:44:00 – Mirror work and reconnecting with your inner child

00:48:50 – Favorite word: Breathe. Least favorite word: Fair.

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What if buying a house wasn’t just a transaction—but a transformation? In this powerful episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Scott Harris to talk about addiction recovery, ADHD, emotional growth, and why finding a home is deeply tied to our mental health.

 
Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads — a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health) and 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) with over 2 million downloads and counting — continues its mission to normalize unfiltered conversations about mental health, trauma, and emotional survival.

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We’re incredibly honored to share that Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads has been shortlisted for the Podcast Awards – Best Mental Health Podcast.

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“You don’t have to do this alone. The moment you stop trying to be the hero is the moment everything changes.” — Scott Harris

Episode Description

When Scott Harris woke up on May 19, 2019, after drinking too much tequila, he made a decision that would change everything: he was done. Not because he hit rock bottom—but because he was tired of the anxiety, the noise in his head, and the feeling that he wasn’t living up to his potential.

In this honest and unexpectedly emotional conversation, Scott joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about addiction recovery, ADHD, leadership, and the surprising mental health journey behind buying a home. As a top New York City real estate broker and author of The Pursuit of Home, Scott explains why purchasing a house is rarely “just a deal.” It’s a transition—one that tests relationships, communication styles, identity, and self-trust.

Scott shares how alcohol once helped him self-medicate his ADHD and social anxiety, and how sobriety opened the door to clarity, vulnerability, and writing his bestselling book. Together, the trio unpacks the emotional rollercoaster of house hunting, why communication can make or break both marriages and real estate deals, and how the right support system changes everything.

This episode is about more than property. It’s about healing, connection, courage, and learning that you don’t have to go through life—or recovery—alone.

Keywords: Scott Harris, addiction recovery, ADHD, sobriety journey, mental health podcast, buying a home, emotional intelligence, anxiety recovery, leadership vulnerability, personal growth, real estate psychology, The Pursuit of Home, communication in relationships, life transitions

Meet Our Guest — Scott Harris

Scott Harris is a nationally bestselling author and top New York City real estate broker who has sold nearly $2 billion in residential property. Founder of MAGNETIC and creator of The Magnetic Method, Scott empowers clients to align their real estate decisions with their personal growth. His book, The Pursuit of Home: A Real Estate Guide to Achieving the American Dream, blends practical strategy with emotional insight.

Connect with Scott:

Website (Book): https://pursueyourhome.com

Company: https://magneticre.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scottieharris/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/harrisresidential/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ScottHarrisResidentialTeam

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@magneticre

X: https://x.com/scottieharris

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@scottharrisfindinghome?lang=en

Substack: https://thepursuitofhome.substack.com/

Key Takeaways

Sobriety can unlock clarity, leadership, and untapped potential.

ADHD isn’t a flaw—it’s energy that needs direction and awareness.

Buying a home is a psychological and emotional transition, not just paperwork.

Communication styles matter—especially between partners during big life decisions.

The right support system can steady you during life’s most stressful moments.

You don’t have to be the hero. Connection heals.

 

Actionable Items

Before making a major life decision, ask: Who’s in my support circle—and are they truly supportive?

If you’re house hunting, clarify your communication style and share it with your partner and agent.

If alcohol or another habit is quieting anxiety temporarily, explore what it might be covering—and consider reaching out for support.

 

References Mentioned

The Pursuit of Home — https://pursueyourhome.com

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — https://988lifeline.org/

Global Crisis Resources — https://findahelpline.com

Important Chapters

00:02:00 – Scott’s sobriety wake-up call

00:07:00 – ADHD, self-medication, and anxiety

00:15:00 – Writing The Pursuit of Home at 5 AM

00:22:00 – Why buying a home is emotionally intense

00:30:00 – Communication styles and relationship stress

00:40:00 – The house that contributed to a divorce

00:44:00 – Why you shouldn’t go through big transitions alone

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