What does professionalism actually look like at a wedding?
Not on Instagram.
Not in theory.
But in the room.
In this episode of Shifting Focus, I sit down with etiquette expert Alison Cheperdak to talk about modern wedding etiquette, social awareness, and the subtle behaviors that shape your reputation in the event industry.
If you are a wedding photographer, filmmaker, planner, florist, or creative vendor, this conversation will sharpen how you show up with clients and fellow vendors.
We cover:
• The essential rules of wedding etiquette every vendor should know
• Common wedding day faux pas that hurt your credibility
• How to interact professionally with planners and clients
• Navigating compliments and awkward conversations with confidence
• Cultural considerations in dress and traditions
• Why kindness is a competitive advantage in business
Your work might get you in the room.
But how you behave determines whether you are invited back.
Connect with Alison:
Website: https://www.elevateetiquette.com/
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Was It Something I Said? https://elevateetiquette.com/book
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Modern Etiquette
03:56 The Journey to Etiquette Expertise
06:26 The Impact of Social Media on Etiquette
09:37 Understanding Wedding Etiquette
12:40 Common Wedding Faux Pas
15:34 Researching Wedding Etiquette
18:38 Vendor Etiquette on Wedding Day
21:37 Building Relationships with Wedding Planners
24:35 Navigating Compliments and Conversations
27:29 Maintaining Professionalism in Challenging Situations
30:30 The Importance of Kindness in Etiquette
33:23 Conclusion and Book Launch