Flex Your Feelings: The 7 Traits That Build Real Emotional Strength
What if the key to feeling more grounded, connected, and emotionally resilient wasn't about being perfect or calm—but about being prepared?In this powerful episode of the Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein sits down with Dr. Emily Anhalt, clinical psychologist, founder of Coa, and author of "Flex Your Feelings," to explore what it really takes to ride the edge of emotional discomfort without shutting down or checking out.From breaking an emotional sweat to navigating modern challenges like AI companions and digital communication, Emily reveals the research-backed framework that transforms how we approach mental health, treating it more like going to the gym and less like going to the doctor.In this episode, we explore:The 7 traits of emotional fitness and why self-awareness is just the beginning"Breaking an emotional sweat" - how discomfort becomes your greatest teacherWhy preparation beats perfection for handling life's inevitable challengesThe power of playfulness and how it signals safety in relationshipsResilience redefined - bouncing forward instead of bouncing backModern communication challenges including AI, emojis, and authentic connectionImposter syndrome decoded - when external praise doesn't match internal dialoguePersonal stories of early career struggles and the gifts hidden in rejectionJoin Dr. Elisha Goldstein’s Private Therapeutic Coaching ProgramSign Up for Elisha’s Email Newsletter & Get the Emotional Health GuideGet Your Free 5 Prompt AI GuideLearn more about Dr. EmilyWebsiteInstagramSpeaking: Available for corporate speaking engagements"Flex Your Feelings" - Available wherever books are soldConnect with Elisha:FacebookTwitterInstagramLinkedInSubscribe to Emotional Longevity:Apple PodcastsSpotifyYouTubeProduced by Peoples Media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Rethinking ADHD: Why It’s Not a Disorder—It’s a Performance Challenge with Michael McLeod
If you’ve ever watched a child (or yourself) struggle with focus, motivation, or follow-through and thought, “They know what to do—so why can’t they do it?”—this episode will change how you see ADHD.Dr. Elisha Goldstein sits down with Michael McLeod, speech pathologist and founder of GrowNOW ADHD, to explore a powerful shift in understanding: ADHD is less about attention and more about performance under pressure, deeply tied to emotional regulation and inner safety.In this eye-opening conversation, they explore:Why emotionally sensitive kids often shut down—not act outHow typical ADHD strategies miss the emotional rootWhat to do before you try reward charts or productivity hacksSimple mindset shifts that help children build internal trustWhy "connection before correction" leads to lasting growthWhether you're a parent, teacher, or adult navigating ADHD yourself, this episode will give you tools, validation, and a fresh path forward.Join Dr. Elisha Goldstein’s Private Therapeutic Coaching ProgramSign Up for Elisha’s Email Newsletter & Get the Emotional Health GuideGet Your Free 5 Prompt AI GuideLearn more about Michael McLeod:WebsiteInstagramConnect with Elisha:FacebookTwitterInstagramLinkedInSubscribe to Emotional Longevity:Apple PodcastsSpotifyYouTubeProduced by Peoples Media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Why Your Brain Feels Fried (And the Tiny Reset That Breaks the Loop)
Ever feel like your brain is just... fried? You’re not alone—and it’s not a personal failure. It’s your nervous system trying to keep up in a world that never shuts off. In this solo episode of The Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein breaks down why we get stuck in emotional loops of anxiety, fatigue, and self-doubt—and how to interrupt them with one small, research-backed shift. If you're stuck in overthinking, checking your inbox 100 times a day, or constantly bracing for what's next—this episode is your reset. Dr. Goldstein shares: What “anxious loops” really are (and how they form) The neuroscience of burnout and identity fusion Why naming your loop can instantly give you more space and choice A 3-step daily reset grounded in behavioral science to rewire calm, clarity, and control These are tiny shifts that build real momentum—and might just save your brain from the burnout spiral.In this episode, we explore:Why Your Brain Feels FriedThe Anxiety Loop ExplainedWhen Preparation Becomes ObsessionIdentity Fusion and “I’m Just an Anxious Person” The Tiny Shift That Breaks the LoopHow to Practice the Reset DailyJoin Dr. Elisha Goldstein’s Private Therapeutic Coaching ProgramSign Up for Elisha’s Email Newsletter & Get the Emotional Health GuideGet Your Free 5 Prompt AI GuideConnect with Elisha:FacebookTwitterInstagramLinkedInSubscribe to Emotional Longevity:Apple PodcastsSpotifyYouTubeProduced by Peoples Media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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You Don’t Need to Fix Your Anxiety | Here’s How to Live With It
View Show Notes & Blog Page for This EpisodeJoin Dr. Elisha Goldstein’s Private Therapeutic Coaching ProgramSign Up for Elisha’s Email Newsletter & Get the Emotional Health GuideGet Your Free 5 Prompt AI GuideYou don’t need to get rid of your anxiety to feel better.In today’s solo episode of The Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein challenges the myth that anxiety is a problem to fix—and shows you how to see it for what it really is: a protective, human process that you can learn to live with, not fear.This episode will help you:Understand the real purpose of anxiety (and why it’s not a flaw)Spot when anxiety becomes harmful—and how to stop it from running your lifeDefuse from the “I’m just an anxious person” identityPractice 3 research-backed tools to create space from anxiety and reclaim your sense of agencyLearn the bus driver metaphor to remember: anxiety may be along for the ride, but you’re still in controlIf you’ve ever thought, If I could just get rid of this anxiety, everything would finally feel better, this episode is your wake-up call. You don’t have to be free from anxiety—you can be free with it.Connect with Elisha:FacebookTwitterInstagramSubscribe to Emotional Longevity:Apple PodcastsSpotifyYouTubeProduced by Peoples Media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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5 AI Prompts to Ease Anxiety (Research Informed)
View Show Notes & Blog Page for This EpisodeJoin Dr. Elisha Goldstein’s Private Therapeutic Coaching ProgramSign Up for Elisha’s Email Newsletter & Get the Emotional Health GuideCan AI actually help with anxiety?In this solo episode of The Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein explores how artificial intelligence, when used with intention, can support emotional health. With five guided prompts rooted in psychology and mindfulness, you'll learn how to use AI as a reflective tool - not a replacement for therapy, but a support system that can increase clarity, calm, and self-compassion.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or stuck in anxious loops, this episode offers you practical ways to pause, reframe, and come back to yourself - using a tool that’s already in your pocket.Dr. Goldstein shares:Why AI can be a surprising ally in managing anxietyHow to use 5 research-backed prompts to support your emotional well-beingThe science behind emotional labeling, reframing, and nervous system regulationHow self-compassion and daily structure shift your relationship to anxietyThese aren’t just ideas—they’re tiny shifts you can try today.Connect with Elisha:FacebookTwitterInstagramSubscribe to Emotional Longevity:Apple PodcastsSpotifyYouTubeProduced by Peoples Media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"Emotional Longevity" explores how emotional health serves as the cornerstone of a happier, healthier, and longer life. Hosted by Dr. Elisha Goldstein, this podcast blends cutting-edge science, practical strategies, and inspiring stories to help you enhance your emotional well-being, build resilience, and strengthen relationships—without the overwhelm of doing more. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.