The Lessons I Didn’t Expect to Learn While Being Single (But Needed More Than I Knew)
In this episode, I’m sharing the unexpected and honestly, lessons I’ve learned during my time being single. From learning to love my own company, to realising I don’t miss my ex, to feeling proud (not apologetic) when I say I’m single… this season has been nothing like I thought, and everything I needed. I’ll walk you through the mindset shifts and the practical steps that helped me get here. If you’re healing, rebuilding, or just finding your way, this one’s for you. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUpForAir Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show
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When Your Boundaries Are Being Disregarded Pre & Post Breakup.
In this episode, I want to take you on a journey of courage. We’ll talk about what happens when your boundaries are broken, the fear of leaving, the deep importance of respect, how to find the strength within yourself, and most importantly, what your future can look like when you spread your wings and walk into a new chapter of your life.So if you’ve been feeling stuck, afraid, or doubting yourself I want you to take a deep breath with me right now and know that by listening today, you’re already beginning to choose yourself. You’re already moving closer to freedom.Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUpForAir Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show
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How To Stop Thinking Your Ex Has Found Someone 'Better'
In this episode I am talking about one of the hardest things to face after a breakup that feeling when your ex moves on and you think they’ve found someone better than you. It can hit you like a punch in the chest you’re scrolling on Instagram, or a friend tells you, and suddenly it feels like everything you went through was for nothing, like you’ve been replaced. I want you to know right now: that’s not the truth. They didn’t find someone better, they found someone different, someone more suited to where they are in life and that says nothing about your value.Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUpForAir Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show
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Going No Contact After A Breakup - The Mental No Contact.
We’re told: block them, delete them, unfollow, cut them out. But here’s the thing. You can remove someone from every physical part of your life and still have them living rent-free in your head. And that… is the part no one teaches you how to deal with.So if you’ve been feeling frustrated because you’ve done “all the right things” but your mind won’t stop bringing them up, you’re in the right place. Because we’re going to talk about mental no contact what it is, why it’s so much harder than the physical side, and the exact tools I used to finally get my peace back.This episode goes hand in hand with my No Contact Guide, which will be available to buy on the 17th of August. Follow the link below to my Stan Store.Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUpForAir Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show
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Moving Back Home After A Breakup.
In this episode I am diving into something so many of you have messaged me about and that is the experience but often feel shame around: moving back home after a breakup. Whether it's your childhood bedroom or a spare room at a parent’s house, it can feel like you're going backwards while everyone else is moving forwards. But this episode is here to shift that mindset completely.If you're in this place right now, I want you to take a deep breath. This is not the end, this is a reset. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUpForAir Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show
Your post-breakup survival guide in podcast form. I healed from my breakup, now I want to help you heal yoursThis podcast is your go-to guide for rebuilding your confidence following a breakup, and stepping into your best self. No sugar-coating—just real talk, mindset shifts, and the tough love you need to heal, grow, and thrive.Because moving on isn’t just about forgetting them—it’s about remembering you.🩷